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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 9:15 am ] |
| Post subject: | Got 3 numbers at club tonight, what to do now? |
I got 3 numbers while dancing with girls tonight, 1 of which I made out with. I have 2 names that I remember them by and 1 girl who's name slipped my mind. What do I do now? The blank text? The "hey my friend and I were settling a debate" question? They don't have my number and I doubt they remember my name, advice? Oh and ever since joining this site and learning the ways of a PUA, I have never gotten so many girls at a club before in my life 
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| Author: | ZiggyH [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 9:34 am ] |
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You got dancefloor game then. Did you sit down and chat with any of these girls? Many girls dance and make out and give out their numbers to guys they meet in clubs because they are in the club mode. That is just what they do. I am generelizing for effect. Disclaimer not all girls do the same things. All that music, dancing and make outs is gone the next day and she is back to work. I recommend for you to have them come join you somewhere you can talk, so you can use call back humour later but also build enough comfort with the girls so they accually have a reason to answer your text. Hi My name is Audioman. We meet at so and so club. Ah yeah that's right. I danced your ass off. You suck "incert smiely for push pull effect (  ,  )". Sorry...
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| Author: | TheBowser [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 1:07 am ] |
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I totally agree with Ziggy. Call back humor will work wonders bro |
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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 1:35 am ] |
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I spoke with them briefly while we were dancing, doing cute things here and there thats how i got each of their numbers. What's callback humor? |
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| Author: | TheBowser [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 1:42 am ] |
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Quote: I spoke with them briefly while we were dancing, doing cute things here and there thats how i got each of their numbers. What's callback humor?
Callback humor is when you call her and mention something that happened earlier in real life that was funny. Im not too good at explaining it and im sure there is a topic about it on here somewhere. The goal of it is to bring her back to the time which will hopefully remind her of her attraction towards you.
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| Author: | Ch1mera [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 2:12 am ] |
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Sometimes all you need to do is think about it from your perspective.. what would you think of a girl who texted you a blank text or randomly started asking you for your opinion? "Massive weirdo" is the answer.. not a good way to open. Blank text = CREEPY, you might think sending one is a DHV because it shows you feel you don't even have to say anything but you'd be wrong! Genuinely asking for her opinion is basically seeking her validation and is horrible for building attraction. Ziggy is on to something. Taking her mind back to the positive frame you created the night before will help create that same kind of mood right away as you are texting her.. that's what you should do. Then you establish that YOU'RE the dominant one - challenge her, be cocky & funny and demonstrate high status then confidently suggest that you two meet up. |
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| Author: | ZiggyH [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 6:16 am ] |
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Callback humour is when you have established an inside joke between just the two of you. Maybe you gave her a nickname or dancing in this case. Usually you want it to be about something she thought was funny when she met you. So you can just say that inside joke, and she know's who it is and where you met and you are right back where you left her. |
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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 7:03 am ] |
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Ok those are good ideas for the future, what about now? They'll remember me, I have a somewhat unique name and I communicated with each of them enough. |
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| Author: | NoShameGame [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:29 am ] |
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As far as i'm concerned you're situation could not be any better. No blank text. Now the game has switched to text game. When you research text game, the result will be a list of what 'not' to do's via text msg. You need to begin each conversation with something whitty... if you met these girls on a Friday, msg them Sunday afternoon and say "I bet my weekend could beat up your weekend" or "you would not beleive what jus happened to me ... " .. never do the regular 'hi, how are you.. i had a good time .. '' that bush is boring dude.. Depending on their response, caliber your response based on theirs.. for example.. they say "haha! what do you mean??" .. |
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| Author: | NoShameGame [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:31 am ] |
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As far as i'm concerned you're situation could not be any better. No blank text. Now the game has switched to text game. When you research text game, the result will be a list of what 'not' to do's via text msg. You need to begin each conversation with something whitty... if you met these girls on a Friday, msg them Sunday afternoon and say "I bet my weekend could beat up your weekend" or "you would not beleive what jus happened to me ... " .. never do the regular 'hi, how are you.. i had a good time .. '' that bush is boring dude.. Depending on their response, caliber your response based on theirs.. for example.. they say "haha! what do you mean??" .. |
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| Author: | NoShameGame [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:32 am ] |
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...that means you are alowed to say haha and use double ?? and exclamation points .. and go from there .. Never text them more than they text you, 1:1 ratio is perfect..and never text them immediately after they text you.. I never take under 30 minutes..this gives me time to analyse the response, forcast my direction i'm taking the conversation, and most importantly, actually learn about the girl bros..girls are beautiful creatures. RESPECT THEM. If u dont remember the girls name and u got her number.. i suggest saying something cute like "i have you saved on my phone as sexy dancer lady" "whats your actual name" .. NoShameGame |
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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Thu Dec 22, 2011 7:18 pm ] |
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EDIT! Alright I texted all 3, got one response from the one I liked the most, we're conversing right now. I'm throwing a party on new years eve, should I ask her out for coffee first then see if she wants to come? |
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| Author: | ZiggyH [ Fri Dec 23, 2011 10:14 am ] |
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What did you text them then? Yes it's all numbers mate. You don't know why the others didn't reply, they might have had real bf's or were just party girls. Hope you are fine with that. They are not important. If i were you i would not mention about your nye party until you established alot of touching and comfort when you meet her. Is this the girl you made out with already? Both of you are probably going shopping after x mas. So you should be able to squeeze her in. Make sure you feel your at a peak at whatever you are doing wiith her before you ping for the next step |
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