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Author:  blue Jesus [ Sun Dec 18, 2011 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  How to start a conversation about sex?
In my experience, talking about sex is a great conversation topic and allows easy escalation.
However oppening up the subject is not always easy.
So how do you guys open up the subject?
Author:  Game Changer [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 2:45 am ]
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I am by no means an expert. But I always ask a girl (and this usually works better with text) "What's something new that you've always wanted to try" It's a pretty ambiguous question that leaves it open to a sexual answer or a lame answer like skydiving. If she gives you the latter, you can be like "Oh...you went that way"
Author:  feelingstronger [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 3:25 am ]
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Start touching her, then look at her lips, shell know that your thinking of kissing. So thats in her head, you start saying something regarding you and sex. You could be like, this may be an understatement, but you know blonde guys are known for having bigger dicks? I'm not suggesting anything, i just read it somewhere and found it very interesting, do you have any input on that from your experience ;), oh wait :O you dont SPAM do stuff with boys i assume, girls more fun? ;) shit like that, make sure its playful though, but its great.
Author:  blue Jesus [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 4:48 pm ]
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I like that.

What i usally do is say i havent been sleeping well. when they ask why i say that since i swore of random one night stands, i've been waking up because of a huge boner, which lets you reveal to her that actually deep down you still want sex even though you dont need it and lets you say : "i want to fuck you know?". From here we talk about our experiences and what not. But this works only with people you have really good rapport with or already know.

I also talk about these overly sexuel partys i go to, there;s always a story to tell about a gangbang in the toillets or something and i transition from there to asking her about her sex life.

Anyway, anybody has others mens of oppening the subject?
Author:  SidTine [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:15 pm ]
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I like the one from epoch :) What I usually suggest or do, is that you start to connect everything to sexual at some point. But not too obvious of course so you don`t come off as needy :) You do a little test with some small thing, and then you see if she is comfortable with that or not :) But don`t mistake uncomfortable with shyness...
It perfectly natural to think about that and you have to show that to her that you are like that. But not needy or creepy!
Author:  The Birdman23 [ Mon Dec 19, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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The question game is perfect. You start with stupid shit like "what it your favorite color" but it almost always escalates to more. Usually if the HB initiates the escalation to sex first i take it as an IOI
Author:  that-Dale-Guy [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 4:57 pm ]
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Lmao at yall. Telling a girl i want to fuck you,straight up really takes ballz lol that could back fire (a slap or a drink all over you followed by "Fuckin Pervert") lol.
I usually start it off with a clean , (slap-proof) approach. Heres alil scenario :
Me : "Hey does size really matter? +pause+ i mean my 1 buddy got this big Beamer sedan,but hes not very lucky with girls.. Then theres this other guy i know he owns a Vespa and girls are all over him.."
She'll prolly laugh or something..
Me :"Haha.. Dirty mind! you thought i was tawkin bout sex didnt ya?"
That leaves the convo wide-open for talking bout sex and you dnt get slapped,and u make it luk like see brought the topic up. Works everytime!
Goodluck amigo.
Author:  Ch1mera [ Tue Dec 20, 2011 9:43 pm ]
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I don't advocate the direct "I want to fuck you" approach, it's generally too creepy unless there is very strong attraction & comfort between you two, but then again at that point, anything would work. When a girl hears that, the socially conditioned bitch-shield part of her goes into overdrive - it might work if she is a massive slut or really horny, but generally ill advised in my opinion.
I met a girl and the next day she was quite blatantly trying to play it cool over texts with very short/shit test replies e.g. after I make a joke she'd say "yeah, laughing on the inside" so I just said "it turns me on when you play it cool..". We've been seeing each other for 2 months now and I just had a solid 2 hours of sex with her.
Author:  Marc [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 12:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to start a conversation about sex?
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In my experience, talking about sex is a great conversation topic and allows easy escalation.....So how do you guys open up the subject?
I see a lot of newbies posting here so thought I'd try to help.

Conversation about sex should be less about just Talking about sex and more so to capture her imagination and make her imagine passionate lovemaking.


As a beginner you could try this:

"In Bed"

Tell a girl to add "In bed" after every question you ask and then reply. (Something I learned from a girl)

So (1) Whats your name "In Bed"
(2) What are you Passionate about "In bed" - (At this point I've had them chuckle)
(3) What do you do "In Bed"
(4) How long can you stay up "In Bed"

Getting my point ?

Rather than talk about it make her imagine in a very indirect way.

There is a Don Juan video on Youtube.
Author:  that-Dale-Guy [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 4:07 am ]
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Lmao at Marc! im definitely adding that "in Bed" to my arsenal. My game (wether its Approaching,mid-game etc) is usually playful. So ima borrow that!
Author:  Brian Bond [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 5:49 am ]
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The "in bed" sounds like fun!
My hints are these: before I start talking about sex or any sex related topics, I have a few lines that I use to set the tone. Im a very sarcastic person, so it works with me. so, as im talking with her, and after I get her laughing, I throw lines like this:
"youre making things pretty hard for me! Watch out for the dirty minds... Not like that"
"this argument is getting pretty intense ... Lets take this slow before we get physical! Watch out for the dirty minds... Not like that!"
... and my favorite ... "omg, we have so much in common... We should make love someday! ... Dont get to excited, im kidding!"
these are lines that can perfectly be thrown as youre having an argument, a convo, whatever. Also, the reason why I throw the "im kidding" in the end is cause its like using the "push/pull", or the "bait/hook/release", and continue with a "normal convo". You need to calibrate. the sex topic is kind of intense, so dont rush it if she reacts weird.

Other lines I came up with and worked great were:
she asked me if she was overdressed, I said "yes, start taking your clothes off"
She asked me if she was underdressed, I said "not yet"
She asked me for a drink, I said "I only pay drinks to girls who pay back with sexual favors... So you better get the next round or you owe me big time"

Now guys, im gonna tell you what I usually use on fb chat... And this works miracles:
"give me a sex"
... that is a purposely made typo for "give me a sec". look at your keyboard and you will see that the letters "s" and "x" are adjacent. Usually she laughs and goes "sex?" ... You can reply anyway you want but I like to go "lol dont get too excited... I ment give me a sec". Make sure you take a couple minutes to reply, cause supposedly you went to do something (to the bathroom... To the refrigerator, whatever"

From here you can develop into a sex topic just by saying "talking about sex ....". If you need suggestions on how to progress, let me know.
Author:  Mixture [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 6:49 am ]
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Brian

I like the fb chat typo technique, I always chat with girls on FB, but never found a way to go that far. am so using this ^^

thanx
Author:  Brian Bond [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 4:42 pm ]
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Brian

I like the fb chat typo technique, I always chat with girls on FB, but never found a way to go that far. am so using this ^^

thanx
If you like to "game" on fb, i recommend you check out this thread called "how should i approach on fb" on the Opening & Approach section. Its more about openers and ways of seting dates and getting phone numbers, but i think you will like it. I share alot of my personal techniques.
Author:  blue Jesus [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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I don't advocate the direct "I want to fuck you" approach,
I think i may have expressed my self a bit vaguely. It's actually not a direct approach a at all. It's more of a "I want to fuck. you know?" But on a subliminal level she hears "i want to fuck you". It's actually inspired by speed seduction. So the messge goes threw and they usually dont pick up on it on a concsious level but it does hit on a subconscious level. Even if they do pick up on it they cant hold it against you, and if they bring up the subject it's still going in the right direction if you dont fumble.

And Brian, golden.
Author:  0uch [ Wed Dec 21, 2011 11:33 pm ]
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From an approach, I like to use sexual tones. It could be done using anything.
Example:
Me: What type of music do you like?
her: I like hip hop
Me: So, you like hip hop (in a sexual tone)

or when your having a normal conversation like.
Her: Yeah I was at a party blah blah blah blah blah.....
Me: Did you just say cock?
Her: no, I didn't say that blah blah blah....
Me: Is ok if did, I encourage dirty thoughts.
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