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| Author: | stiffz [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 2:56 pm ] |
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I was the dominant alpha male in the week I've known her. She has been texting me non stop until one day.. She cancelled the date on me because she had to babysit. I was already having a bad day, so I kind of got cranky on her. Her tone changed with me 180 degrees. She stopped texting me. Here is the last conversation we've had. me: would you like to go out with me on Saturday? her: during the week is better for me normally.. me: hmm I'm free Tuesday and Thursday, Monday works too her: k i will let you know so as you guys can see. I lost the upper hand. I really like this girl, what do I do to get it back? |
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| Author: | burning_afd [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 5:35 pm ] |
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well first, the situation isnt that bad and can be recovered. my suggest is that call her and tell her the truth that you had a bad that and that's why u got cranky at her. also i say adding a little cute line with it wont kill. some pua's dont recommend to admit saying you're sorry. but covering a situation quickly with sand to just hide, can bring it up later in the future. best luck 
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| Author: | stiffz [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:14 pm ] |
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Hey buddy, Thanks for your reply. I actually did say i'm sorry the day after, but I'm afraid I was too apologetic to an extend she got annoyed. I explained to her that I had a really bad day, and I told her that I'm sorry and it won't happen again. And by apologizing I felt like I lost my dominance over her. Is there anything else I can do besides not talk to her unless she talks to me? |
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| Author: | Mr. Love [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:16 pm ] |
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If you do go that route.....Don't say that "your sorry" Use the word apologize. |
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| Author: | burning_afd [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:23 pm ] |
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Quote: If you do go that route.....Don't say that "your sorry" Use the word apologize.
yup i agree.missed that detail.thanks for the remind.
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| Author: | stiffz [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:42 pm ] |
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But I did say I'm sorry. The damage is already done  that's why I'm posting here, as to what my next step should be.. if I text her tonight and say something like: "I miss having someone constantly bugging me over text  I made a new song I want to show you." how's that per say? |
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| Author: | burning_afd [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 6:53 pm ] |
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Quote: But I did say I'm sorry. The damage is already done
don't text man call her. i have seen girls getting advices from other girls when replying to your text.also u can usually express yourself better with your tone when talking.
that's why I'm posting here, as to what my next step should be.. if I text her tonight and say something like: "I miss having someone constantly bugging me over text I made a new song I want to show you." how's that per say? |
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