PUA Forum :: Is this a good thing to show vulnerability?

Considering that every PUA must show some vulnerability on his game that makes him look human, I thought of this "Defect" on me that might be good for this for its funny nature.

Im a big guy, you know, I lift some weights and my fathers gifted me with 6'2.
I tend to show confidence and to be a strong guy, but I completely lose my nerve when I see moths or some kind of similar insect. If a moth goes nearby me I can run away to avoid her touching me.

Do you think this might work? Is funny indeed, and I think that might be useful in some part of my game.

Author:	Marvin Nash [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 4:49 am ]
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Considering that every PUA must show some vulnerability on his game that makes him look human, I thought of this "Defect" on me that might be good for this for its funny nature. Im a big guy, you know, I lift some weights and my fathers gifted me with 6'2. I tend to show confidence and to be a strong guy, but I completely lose my nerve when I see moths or some kind of similar insect. If a moth goes nearby me I can run away to avoid her touching me. Do you think this might work? Is funny indeed, and I think that might be useful in some part of my game.

Author:	JSmooth [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 12:54 pm ]
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Quote: Considering that every PUA must show some vulnerability on his game that makes him look human, I thought of this "Defect" on me that might be good for this for its funny nature. Im a big guy, you know, I lift some weights and my fathers gifted me with 6'2. I tend to show confidence and to be a strong guy, but I completely lose my nerve when I see moths or some kind of similar insect. If a moth goes nearby me I can run away to avoid her touching me. Do you think this might work? Is funny indeed, and I think that might be useful in some part of my game. At the proper time in comfort stage yes showing vulnerability can be very good.

Author:	Don Draper [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 1:37 pm ]
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Vulnerability is one of the biggest game changers in your arsenal. She needs to know that you're "human" too, beyond all your Alpha Male Machismo. Women often consider our confession of vulnerability as a proof of how much we are in love with them and how much they mean to us. She will be touched by this, and she will feel loved by the fact that you trust and value her enough to confess your little weaknesses and fear in her. And it doesn't make you any less masculine, in her eyes. So, don't worry about it "ruining my Alpha Playa image". But, like JSmooth pointed out, "At the proper time in comfort stage" should this be used. You don't go and confess your vulnerability to a woman you've just known. 'Cause that'd just not give you the outcome you are looking for. Good luck.

Author:	Marvin Nash [ Sat Nov 19, 2011 6:37 pm ]
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Good answers, thank you very much to both of you

Author:	Endooo [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:30 am ]
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Yeah always good to show a soft side, but never too soft..

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Author:	Sinathos [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 4:50 am ]
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It's good to know what your vulnerabilities are. That's the most important thing, and if you can play with it is great. Because you can also show that despite of being a weak side, you have control over it... if you really do, lol. But it's good to show your human side.

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