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| Author: | slap-jack [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 4:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I need help. please |
hello everyone. i meet a girl a week ago on some party. we talked a little and danced. then i took her home and that was it. next day i add her on facebook and she accept me, and now i have a problem, i don't know how to start a conversation and ask her out. every time i see her online, i "freeze" and don't know what to do. does anyone has a suggection, please? 
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| Author: | PUAMonster [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 6:42 pm ] |
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Welcome to the forum! Anyway, just say "Hey how's it going?" or whatever and get some conversation going. Ask her for coffee or drinks or something. You know she's interested so just go for it man! Cheers |
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| Author: | gointothetop [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 8:49 pm ] |
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Honestly. Fuck it up You are WAY TOO attached to your outcome. Are you trying to become a PUA or are you trying to get this girl. If it's this girl you want forget it man let it go if you're freezing over a facebook convo what are you going to do face to face. LET IT GO talk to her fuck it up learn and move forward. I'm not saying you shouldn't try, just go in with that attitude I DON'T CARE. You'll lose your anxiety enjoy yourself more and you'll be surprised that casual cool attitude will move through your convo and she'll feel it. When I got into pickup I got blown out 100's of time before I got any success and now I realize the success came because I started feeling comfortable losing the girl. Check some of the quotes I have listed on the title bar of my page I think they'll help you out: http://puame.ca |
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| Author: | *FlaiR* [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 11:11 pm ] |
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You just started pick up.. great man... you need to realize that you're the prize in every situation with an HB. At the beginning, you need to try a lot of things to see what works out for you.. there's so many HB's in bars and clubs each day of the week that you could pick up.. don't get scared of only ONE Hb on facebook. Let's say she doesn't like you! Who gives a shit?! You didn't get slapped or anything.. not even face to face. You have to seriously at least try and have some balls on the internet. Imagine if you see her in real life.. you will have 200% of AA. Plus, the more she sees that you're waiting.. the more it decreases your value. Try to not lose your value it's really important. You're a high valued male that has a lot of options.. so why the hell would this girl affect your life?? Remember.. you're the prize. You are just giving her an opportunity to meet you! |
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| Author: | slap-jack [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 4:49 pm ] |
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for me it's easier to talk to girl face to face then over the internet. that's why i have this problem. but thanks for advice guys, i'l change my attitude and see what will happened |
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| Author: | Athenian [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 5:12 pm ] |
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Personally I wouldnt have asked her for her facebook. If she was interested then she would have found you. |
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