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Author:  [deleted] [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:20 pm ]
Post subject:  My 2 Rules for Text Game. Please add your rules to the list.
Text game is a big part of mid-game. When you can easily get any girls number, your text game keeps the flame of your connection alive. Especially for random girls that you meet at parties, on the street, or anywhere that you aren't going to routinely see them again like work or school.

More than once, my text game has killed me. I laugh about it now but here are the top two things that I have learned.

1) Don't send a same day text. I used to text the girl as soon as I got her number so 'she would have it in her phone' but now I wait 2-4 days. Don't send a 'nice meeting you' text. I think this is a standard rule in the PUA community.
2) Keep it short

I would have spared myself a lot of pain just by following these rules. Anyways, I know it's not much so if you have anything to add, please share below.
Author:  SQDiablo [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:45 pm ]
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I agree. The text should be short and try to go with something funny that happened/you talked about when you met the person

"Hi, how are you, was nice to meet you..." is a 'stale message' and will only get a 'being polite' reply at most.

Being confident, witty, funny, & playful will get the right response. Works for text game, online dating game and in-field PU...
Author:  MynameisFisher [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:25 pm ]
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Accurate. I also try avoiding questions in texts. Especially "How was your day?" and such. Instead I try texting stuff that will make HER ask questions. Like about any random but interesting shit I just did that day.
Author:  Sparroww [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:50 pm ]
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I disagree on the 'nice to meet you text'. I've tried waiting a few days and I think getting your number in her phone soon is the better option. Yeah, it's kinda lame, but if you can pull off good text game from then on, that one text wont really matter.
Author:  [deleted] [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:35 pm ]
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What are some pua texts to send after first meeting a girl? Most of my text messages convos after meeting a girl via cold approach go like this:

2-4 Days Later
[Insert any girls name in place of 'girl']
john (me) "Hey girl"
Girl "Hey john whats up"

Then that's it, i dont text her back. The next day or so I might text invite her to hang out.

If she doesn't want to hang out when i text her later and it is just a random girl i had a short conversation with then i will say **"cool. well if you want to hang out again ill let you initiate it" **

Is that cool? Have you had experience with anything else working?

**I have not actually tested this for myself yet. But i have seen this work with other people.
Author:  0uch [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 10:47 am ]
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I always send a text same day. Something like "Nice to meet you, MyName" and just leave it.

Next day, I remember what we talked about or what we did and have some funny creative message to go with it.
Author:  Luw [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 1:33 pm ]
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My personal rules:

1) No "Miss you", "Love you" or other nonsense. I like being romantic and sensual, however only when talking face to face and holding hands or me holding her tits.

2) Never repeat myself 3 times. If I ask for something and she ignores it or doesn't respond at all I leave a second chance to do so maybe the very next day. However not 3 times. Glad this happens very seldom.

3) As few smiles as possible. I like to keep it manly not childish.

4) At least a few minutes between responses:) 5-10mins ideal. This happens naturally as I am always busy doing something and just read my inbox after a few minutes when the message came in
Author:  MynameisFisher [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 4:16 pm ]
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Oh well. I might also add that this text game stuff is not too much part of my game. I like things personal. I only use the girl's number to fix a meeting. Anything else is just random stuff.
Author:  [deleted] [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:37 am ]
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Oh well. I might also add that this text game stuff is not too much part of my game. I like things personal. I only use the girl's number to fix a meeting. Anything else is just random stuff.
agreed. setting a date is the purpose of texting. its just not personal enough to build attraction
Author:  AznPersuasion [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:38 pm ]
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Agree. Agree. Agree.

Be different. Girls get the stupid "nice meeting you" "it was nice seeing you" "i had fun yesterday" bullshit all the time.

Sometimes it's fun to play a little text game, but don't let it run on too long. Wait between responses (it was said before, but just stay busy and forget you're texting her) and above all, make sure that when you text her, the ultimate goal is to set up a meet. There's no reason to text besides that in my book, as I feel it isn't sufficient for good social interaction.

So yeah, good shit said throughout the thread!
Author:  Melodical [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 10:19 pm ]
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The Golden rule. If you are texting when you're a bit pissed (which isn't a good idea in itself but some times unavoidable) Never start off the text with the girls name as in "Hiya Natalia" or Hiya Jane" miss the girls name out and put "sexy" or "Sweetie" or something else along those lines.

The rationale being that when you send a text to the wrong woman by mistake due to you being well oiled, then without names there is a decent chance of talking your way out of it. With names there isn't. Trust me on this it will happen.
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