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Author:  AznRoll [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:41 am ]
Post subject:  Not too sure what to do next.
Hey,

So I'm new to this PUA thing but I decided to try to game in my University the other day. There was an HB7 in the library. I opened by asking her about Chem, found out she's in my chem lab, got her name and left. I saw her again the next day and we started talking again, laughed at our chem prof and I helped her on the chem lab. We talked about the bar and she said she'd really like it if she saw me there. I laughed and said "I maybe promise to see you there." I had some major nerves going on and got a fb close.
I'm not too sure what to do next. Did I blow it? Or is this still okay?
Author:  thecrackler [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Not too sure what to do next.
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Hey,

So I'm new to this PUA thing but I decided to try to game in my University the other day. There was an HB7 in the library. I opened by asking her about Chem, found out she's in my chem lab, got her name and left. I saw her again the next day and we started talking again, laughed at our chem prof and I helped her on the chem lab. We talked about the bar and she said she'd really like it if she saw me there. I laughed and said "I maybe promise to see you there." I had some major nerves going on and got a fb close.
I'm not too sure what to do next. Did I blow it? Or is this still okay?
Where is there any gaming involved here? To me this sounds like simple conversation between classmates, and quite platonic. You should be commended for having the gonads to initiate, and simply talking to women is a big hurdle for many. Still, when you ask if you blew it, what is the "it" you're referring to?

Laughing at the chem professor together and working on a lab is friend activity. Likewise, it doesn't bode well that she said "she'd really like it if she saw you there." It's vague, non-committal, and essentially falls under the category of common decency.

Did she give any physical signs? When you worked on the lab, how was her body positioned? Was she focused on the work or distracted?
Author:  AznRoll [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:05 am ]
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Ahhh so much to learn. Sorry. -.-
Still an AFC.

Well whenever we stopped and talked she turned towards me. I don't even think I gamed. Ugh, feel stupid now haha. Any tips on talking to this girl?
Author:  swagstar [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:43 am ]
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Explain the whole situation and background with this girl and I think I can tip you or two.
Author:  thecrackler [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:31 pm ]
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Ahhh so much to learn. Sorry. -.-
Still an AFC.

Well whenever we stopped and talked she turned towards me. I don't even think I gamed. Ugh, feel stupid now haha. Any tips on talking to this girl?
Don't feel stupid. By any measure, this was all positive, for a number of reasons:
1) You established rapport with an HB, who not only didn't reject you outright as a creep (often
the case with some overly eager AFCs), but chose to partner up for lab work.

2) Having an HB friend/acquaintance--in which humping hasn't been denied outright--works
as a critical asset to you in a club or bar. Publicly kickin' it with this HB in a club will catch the
eye of other HBs you may want to bone, and any creepiness will be disarmed.

3) By entering this HB's world as a non-threatening entity, you enter the world of her friends
and comrades, some of which are no doubt single and down to fuck, if that's the goal.

I say well done.
Author:  jdilla1 [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 7:58 am ]
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if you see her in the library again say something like: "Wow. youre here again? you must really be the nerdy type." with a lil smerk to let her know youre teasin her. something along those lines
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