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Author:  SidTine [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 12:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Made a big mistake? Respond please

I`ve been out with this girl, who I know for about half a year.. And it was really nice and all that, but it`s kind a weird situation bcs we know each other for so long, and from the beginning there was smth between us, but we still aren`t together (both of us are "guilty" for that).. And this evening when we were out, her best friend and my best friend also met each other, and they hooked up the same evening. They kissed at the end, and I didn`t kiss "my girl" bcs.. i don`t know why, i`m stupid.. Very Happy
And before the goodbye I have her a bracelet with my name on it..
The same night she send me a text message, as i asked her, but only a polite Good Night..Otherwise we send a nicer "good night"..Then the other day we saw each other, it was so so, smth was not alright, but still ok.. Then we went on a drink and asked her if she was wearing it, and she said no and then i told her to return it to me (i know, a STUPID thing to do, but i don`t know what was i thinking).. And after that things got really bad, she was kind a avoiding me and all that..
What`s the matter? The bracelet, the fact that her and mine best friend got together so quickly and we`ve been on to that for half a year or bcs i didn`t kiss her when i had the chance?

Author:  snillaheart [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 11:12 pm ]
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I've been here, the vibe of nothing happening between you two has grown stronger and now its actually awkward to introduce intimacy. it gets worse. its your fault youre not fucking her because as a man its your job to build a relationship, she thinks youre a pussy and will find her a new man with a hard cock to fuck. Sorry man i dont think its gonna go anywhere except friends at this point, you have to learn from your mistakes.
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Then we went on a drink and asked her if she was wearing it, and she said no and then i told her to return it to me (i know, a STUPID thing to do, but i don`t know what was i thinking
its not stupid, at least you get to keep your shit when she leaves, but yes, try to never have moments where you didnt know what you were thinking, control your emotions.

Author:  swagstar [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 1:42 am ]
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Faster you act, the easier the anxiety in your chest leaves and you can stop wishing you`d do it like an AFC.

Author:  SidTine [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:36 pm ]
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Well, bcs of that I completely stopped with texting and talking to her for 2 weeks.. Kind of a freeze-out. And now I want to try one more time, but this time I will go for it all the way in one evening. And if she rejects, fuck it-move on :)
And about the emotions.. I have to fucking control them yes! Until now I`ve got myself into so much troubles with girls bcs of that.. :P

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