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| Author: | jasonfitz [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 1:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Need help gaming a friend |
Ok so let me first explain my situation. I have a friend(not very good friends, but we know each other really well) that I like. So I wanted to try game on her. I basically text messaged her using push-pull and got her to come visit me. Next day she hits me up to go eat at a restaurant with her, so I go and we talk about life/family/work for almost three hours until late night. I held her hands for very little time to kind of kino. I haven't seen her in two days, now the issue is that do I keep initiating conversations or wait for her? I dont want to give off some negative vibes and act need and at the same time I dont want to stay in the friend zone. Do you think I should wait for her to hit me back up? I dont want to make assumptions, but I think this girl does like me but she is worried about leaving the friend zone, how do I work this angle? Also a major point to note is that, I am not trying to get in bed with her, I truly do like her. |
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| Author: | Rawn [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 2:00 pm ] |
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From the top of my head, I think you should follow normal procedure. Invite her to come along an event that you are going to anyways, like you normally would, and use your game at the event. Push-pull, and add kino very slightly to begin with, add more as you feel she gets comfortable with it. When leaving the friendzone it takes time to get used to the idea of having another kind of relationship. I would advice you to wait a bit before you invite her for any event. Like 6-7 days - make it feel like a natural thing, and not a needy thing. |
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| Author: | jasonfitz [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 1:46 pm ] |
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I met her today and tried to game her, but she seemed so busy today so I didnt even bother doing anything and just left. She is so confusing its annoying. |
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| Author: | davidlov [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 9:08 am ] |
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care to elaborate on what happened that second time you met her and she seemed to busy? then i can give you advice.. by the way you shoulda kissed her that day you talked for 3 hours. but its alright |
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| Author: | jasonfitz [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 9:17 pm ] |
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lol well trust me i have known this girl for sometime and we have many mutual friends, if i kissed her on that night, it would have been so awkward and I am a 100% sure she would have back out. I saw her again, but this time it was even worse, I was trying to be a little cocky, I am good with this one class and aced it, a few days earlier she asked for my help on it. I ran into her yesterday and was trying to do push-pull, I said I can't help u with the exam, and she then replies "why would I needed your help anyways", I was so confused, the only reason I did it was so she would beg alittle and then I would help her, but she went in a completely different direction. I had no idea what to say, so I simply respond "because I am awesome" and walk away. |
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| Author: | davidlov [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:08 pm ] |
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you're thinking about it too much dude, you don't have to try any schemes to get her to like you. just be yourself!! if she ask for help then help her! trust your instincts on what to do, they're usually right. thats why we have instincts like all other animals, its how we survive. stop trying so hard and being awkward, next time you see her ask her how shes doing in that class and follow up with telling her to meet you somewhere and you'll help her or invite her to your house to study. if she says something like, "i thought you didn't wanna help me". just say "why wouldn't i wanna help you? i actually could use a study partner." as if nothing ever happened and say it playfully with a smile. Oh and uh if you're scared of kissing her then why even try. here is something you could benefit from, that i told another guy. read my post on there. openers-great-whats-after-that-vt120343.html?highlight= |
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| Author: | jasonfitz [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 11:04 pm ] |
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thanks I see her tonight at a party, so ill try some stuff and report back to you. Ill just be myself. |
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| Author: | swagstar [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 11:45 pm ] |
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Alpha, alpha, alpha. |
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| Author: | jasonfitz [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 7:17 am ] |
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just reporting back, so she said she is having a hard time with studying, so then im like "all you gotta do is ask me nicely" and then she asked nicely, so i will have to help her tomm and at the same time try to have a nice conversation. |
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| Author: | swagstar [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 10:07 pm ] |
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You did a compliance test and she did as you wanted. So now it`s your turn to kino her and let her qualify herself! |
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