Ok so im pretty new to the "game" and it seems like i have no problem picking up women that are 9's and 10's but they never interest me, but then i find a solid 7 or 8 that i actually want to get to know and i cant pull it off. Here is my current dilemma and i really hope it can be saved.
Was at local restaurant/bar late sat night with my roommate. One of the servers sweeping in the background caught my eye and as she walked past i called her over and ask her some questions from "the book of questions". (Book has some great ice breaker questions). The answers she gave were not the typical ones i am used to getting which further grinds my curiosity....
I run the 5 lies game (worked flawlessly) She ended up owing me 2 "high dollar" bottles of water (im 22 but she is only 20 so joked around about how she can buy me some water instead of a shot).
I numbered closed and offered her my number but she ended up giving me hers instead. She basically chilled with us for 30 mins after being off so i knew she was having a good time.
Here is the text convo that followed
(10 min after leaving)
Me: U owe me a water
her: Ha good water too
Me: yes two smart waters
o and my last name is ____ so you can facebook stalk meher: i dont facebook creep
Me: i guess i need to ask you more hypothetical then until your curious enough to friend me
her: Ha i guess i'll have to win a bet first
Me: well we alrdy know your a bad lier
her: this is true
me: good thing thats a good trait to have
her: ha ya i know but it gets me in trouble at the same time
me: i ahve found that telling the truth all the time never gets you in trouble, why do you say that?
her: because im also very blunt
me: lol not as blunt as this guy. Im the master at offending people
her: ha good
Night ends
Next afternoon like an idiot i initiate
Me: sooo i decided something...
her: what
me: i will give you the chance to now owe me some high dollar water by doing the 2 truths 1 lie game (she brought the game up last night at table)
her: in person or over text message
Me: well the game over text but obviously the water you will owe me is going to be in person
(2 mins later)
Me: and besides i dont trust you enough yet to be letting you buy me water
After that i have gotten no response. Im pretty sure she has a bf (she never mentioned one, but last night the text responses were right away until after about the time it would take her to get home and she also had a nice lil diamond necklace on, i dont think she wants to facebook friend me either because it will give away that she is in a relationship)
Yes i made a ton of mistakes and i was under the influence last night but the damage is done, currently im trying to just freeze her out but i need some guidance! Sorry for the lengthy post