Hi guys, I hope you are doing well, yesterday I was out with a girl and had a major cockblocking event. I would appreciate if you could give me some pointers.
This is what happened:
This girl tells me that she wants to go out so I tell her that on Thursday I am going out with an old guy friend I havent seen a long time to a hype bar and she is welcome to join us, she came late but nevertheless she was there.
So she gets there and we three start talking while I slightly tease her, we are having great time. About one hour after that two big fellas came and start talking with her as it turns out that one of them (who at this point is kinda wasted) is an old friend from her hometown.
They totally draw her attention out of us to a point where the girl is showing me her back, so I touch her and ask "are you not going to introduce us? are your friends some kind of VIP we are not allowed to talk?", she laughs and my friend and I join the conversation.
Honestly speaking I did not like those guys, her old friend was an arrogant medicine student (studying in a crappy university, bragging about how wasted he gets and how much he fucks)... the other guy, he was just boring.
Problem is along the conversation her old friend is making her have a good time, she laughs her ass off.
So my friend has to leave and I am left alone in this situation, I try to talk to the girl and she answers me always but her friend always comes and make her laugh again. I try to talk with any of the guys and honestly I get bored quickly, their conversations are not fun to me.
At one point her friend comes from nowhere and asks me if I am gay (WTF?) and when I say no, he asks me if I have a girlfriend (obviously, hes testing the waters)... the girl goes to the bathroom and one minute after her ass friend goes too (Im like, come on this is too much)...
When she comes back I tell her that I am tired and I will be leaving (I train and box every morning)... she says she wants to stay now... so I pretty much have to be OK with that, so I just asked if she could give me a ride home, which is kinda close.... she accepts and decides to say good-bye to her friends.
But when we are leaving her friend sticks to us and as she sees how late it is and how wasted he is, she offers to give him a ride too. I teased and flirted the last 5 min back as that is the only thing left to do.
I think on the good side I did not get emotional over this nor acted AFC, also she reciprocated my light touch and not his (he hugged her several times) (also she is very passive with touch) and she dropped the party when I left.
On the bad side I dont have an idea how to deal with her friends competing and cockblocking to me like that.
So, in your opinion, how should I have reacted?
Was it OK what I did?
How can I prevent this from happening?
Can I do something to make this kind of guys go away?
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