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Hey guys, I need some advice on escalating from the attraction phase in to the comfort phase.
My problem is that I can only use non-verbal game most of the time as the clubs I go to are so noisy!!! (I realise that it's my own fault and I am planning on going to quieter places)
I can get to the point where I have received 3 or more IOI's, I then will lock in with a prop, either a scarf or ring. I then will lean in and whisper to them but still keeping their focus on me. After a few minutes of talking, I will go in for the kiss using the MM.
The issue that I have is, how or what can I do or say to show that I want to leave to a comfort building location... Do I invite her friends, or can I merge with another set to make bouncing easier?
Any help, ideas, or even criticisms would be much appreciated.
Thanks.
Well that depends.... If it's a two set meaning your target and one other girl you need to take both of them with you. But just as so you should have been essentially gaming both of them so that they both like you but just one of them gets you. My problem is that I can only use non-verbal game most of the time as the clubs I go to are so noisy!!! (I realise that it's my own fault and I am planning on going to quieter places)
I can get to the point where I have received 3 or more IOI's, I then will lock in with a prop, either a scarf or ring. I then will lean in and whisper to them but still keeping their focus on me. After a few minutes of talking, I will go in for the kiss using the MM.
The issue that I have is, how or what can I do or say to show that I want to leave to a comfort building location... Do I invite her friends, or can I merge with another set to make bouncing easier?
Any help, ideas, or even criticisms would be much appreciated.
Thanks.
If you have a 3 set or bigger you MIGHT be able to take her with you and leave. The first thing to do is isolate the target within the venue first for a few minutes to a spot that is not as loud so you two can talk. Tell the group where you are taking her so they don't freak out and come looking for her and interrupt you. If that goes well then later go for a bounce to somewhere else with your girl.