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| Author: | zaidmagic [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 7:46 pm ] |
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I know this chick and every time I want to build rapport with her she feels that I am being better than her and she blows off what I said. It is freaking annoying. I once said: did you know that the best compliment you could give a woman is to restate her name .. etc. (Jay wa routine) She replies: No, thats because you are getting at a more personal personal level with them. ( this is not verbatim but I get a bitchy cold vibe from her). This happens every time I speak with her. |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 8:04 pm ] |
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the best way to build rapport with a girl is to relate things that are centred on her. women love talking about themselves and therefore they will be more focused on you talking about them and saying any irrelevant crap which they dont want to hear. here is a condensed section on how to building great deep rapport with any girl: building rapport is a very interesting process. in order to build a great emotional connection one must choose to talk about things which have deep emotional content. it does not matter what the girl does or likes, you can connect with her even if you have dissimilar interests. as you know all occupations and hobbies are completely different in their complexity, principles and structure, but there is one thing which all of them have in common/share "EMOTIONS". one must be empathetic and show a girl that u understand why she chose to do that job or hobbie by expressing the emotions that one feels when doing that activity, it shows that you're really trying to get to know her, and she will think "wow this is a great guy to talk to, he's making an effort to understand me, but wait, i dont know anything about him" and this will compel her to ask you questions and u can freely express yourself how ever much u want as long as u express urself passionately and positively. all the men dont do this at all and do not understand how much empathy is a powerful force and openly allow themselves to be perceived to see a girl superficially. you can use the concept of 'rapport' to ur advantage as well. in order for you to build greater rapport with her, get used to asking more open-ended questions e.g. "what have you been up to?" or "What did u get up to today?", my one: "What monkey business did u get up to today?". dont use questions like "wats up hun?", thats a closed-ended question which the girl would simply answer and she wont give u much material to work on in order to reach the hook point. and connect on her answers in a positive way. dont be afraid to tease her as well. dont be afraid to create impact. when telling a girl about a situation that happened to u on that day or in the week, give more details about it, women love details. it is also good to read the local news paper, women are usually very aware what happens in the world, u should as well. u can get her point of view on something in the news (nothing to do with which celebrity had sex with who) e.g. political, environmental, sociological etc and then she would ask you what u think and you can manipulate the conversation which can lead anywhere u want. another way u can have an "endless conversation" is the principle of "Question, statement, Question, statement, Q, S, Q, S etc". so u ask an open question, receive the answer, and then make a statement about the last thing she said in order to ask a deeper question. this process can go round in a circle, it can go on for ages. hope that i have helped. happy gaming dude |
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| Author: | zaidmagic [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 5:30 am ] |
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Thanks man that helped a lot, especially the bit about open ended questions; that helps in text game as well. you mentioned the hook-point ... people keep talking about that but i don't really know what that is. I can guess that it is the point at which the girl is attached to you. Is that right? |
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| Author: | mickeyjackson21 [ Wed Nov 02, 2011 10:07 am ] |
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the hook point is point in the time in the interaction where the girl is commited to the interaction. you will know when a girl is hooked by how open their body language is, she is completely focused on you, she asks you questions and helps extend the interaction and give further responses to what you say. |
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