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Author:  dynamation [ Tue Oct 25, 2011 11:17 pm ]
Post subject:  girl show HUGE IOI...I fucked it up...now what?
So I had a 2 minute conversation with this girl...nothing big.

But then later, we and like 20 other people played this game where the person next to you ask a question, and you say the names of people in the room. People who want to find out the question has to drink.

Anyway when it was her turn to answer her question, she said my name. Her question was something like who do you want to be left with after the party tonight?
Well this is a huge IOI, she literally said out of all the people, she wants to be with me.

When it was my turn, the guy next to me fucked it up. He asked me who is the easiest pull tonight? And I said her. Needless to say, she was pissed.

Everyone leaves and it was just me, her and this other guy. This other guy was obviously into her. He cockblocked me by talking about, oh how was your night with [insert other girls name]? Did anything happen that night? You were so touchy.

Nothing happened that night. I guess I couldve made a move, but I didn't.

Anyway we text back and forth a bit.

1:30am
me: hey sorry about tn...I'm such a jerk. Would love to get to kno u better over a cup of coffee sometime!
her:it's ok. Dun worry about that. :) gnite
me: gnite [name]

6:52pm
me: [name]! Hru?
her: hru?
7:17pm
her: Oh. I'm ok. Busy lar
7:44pm
me: Haha what a nerd
me: Want to study together? :) I need to write an essay.
8:34pm
her: Haha y do u need to write an essay?
9:06pm
me: Supervision!
her: Comscis write essays?
me: No philosophy...1500 words fml (i texted her right back, prolly mistake)
10:05pm
me: Hey nerdball, bedtime for you yet?
her: Lol no lar too much work
me: Aww that's too cute


It seem like all the IOI's are gone. She doesn't seem that interested. How to save it?

Note: this girl is hot. she is also very sexual (I learned from our playing never have I ever)
Author:  Lucky69 [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 2:04 am ]
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I don't see any faults here.
But if I had to pick something, I would just have to say your mindset of, "i fucked up."
You basically push-pulled with the easiest pick up then texting her and stuff. Now, shes calling you a nerd, so come back and call her a geek, princess or something and make this fun. You seem tense.
Author:  dynamation [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 2:18 am ]
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No I called her a nerd. But she doesn't seem to bite.
Author:  Azeime [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 6:31 am ]
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i wouldnt say you just completely fucked up put i would say that your pursuing too hard because you like her, just sit back and wait for her too initialize a little contact and go from there. Give her a little time and space to think about you! your the prize bro not her so if you lose one there are 2 more. Be a little more unavailable

REMEMBER THE CATSTRING THEORY
Author:  dynamation [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 11:21 am ]
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so I guess just ignore her until she initiate contact?

she friended me on fb last night.
Author:  debugger [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 5:55 pm ]
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You negged too hard,and she offered you to come over.
Why didn`t you accept?She was looking for excuses to make you come.
Author:  Zutt [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:20 pm ]
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It looks like you did a good set, but the guy who cockblocked you tried to be the AMOG. You should have played around with him and "embarress" him infront of the HB to show that you were confident enough to take his cockblock. If you suceed in being the AMOG he will be pissed and leave.

Looks like it was 90% skill and 10% bad luck, shit happens but get on it again!
Author:  Tr@veler [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:54 pm ]
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Yeah dude, that was bad. After that one neg it seems like it's all over. She's not biting anything and you seemed very needy in that text game. Sorry, but move on.
Author:  Max DHV [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:58 pm ]
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If the texting made any sense I could be more constructive. But... seems to me you fucked it up with the answer rather than the guy next to you with the question, and so from there it was all down hill. Beyond that all I can really say is it seems you fired txt replies back way too quick, but I think it was dead by then anyway. I see no reason why she would contact you out of the blue from here even if you do lay back. Sorry dude, tho best of luck.
Author:  dynamation [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:50 pm ]
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Quote:
You negged too hard,and she offered you to come over.
Why didn`t you accept?She was looking for excuses to make you come.
where do u see she offered me to come over after my neg?
Author:  keerthisnehal [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:21 am ]
Post subject:  dont sweat it
hey that was def a mistake but nothing u can do abt it but just learn 4m it. when the dude asked u a question like tht, dont answer it honestly.

i would probably make the same mistake but now that i thought abt it, i would say "the answer for that question my friend (make it sound really dishonest), would be u" haha.
Author:  dynamation [ Sat Nov 05, 2011 5:22 am ]
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update: I did some work, but I kiss closed, got her pants off but didnt fclose.

she was really just a busy person.
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