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Author:  Dunkmeister [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 7:29 am ]
Post subject:  Almost there yet no close I need your opinion

I could start a really long intro, or get into the spirit and jump right in to my issue, but I will have the best of both worlds with a neat intro and then jump into the issue. I think that was a good enough intro right ?

So I went to the bar with my friends and I wasnt drinking because I was designated driver so as they are ordering their diesel thing, this girl at the other side of the bar is like trying to tell me something, so I make her come closer and she starts talking about how the barmaid is doing it all wrong and wasting all the alcohol to give a good show. Anyways, I thought it was a good conversation so I let her babble about how she is studying in this. She then realize that the girl doesnt have the drink she kindly wants so she directs herself at another bar in the club that serves her drink. She invites me to come with her so I follow her, she pays me a drink out of nowhere and we keep on talking. I do a couple of routines everything is working great, then my friends come around and theyre both pissed drunk, start talking to her but she looks at them like if they were from outer space. The good friend that I am, I told her they were decent guys but just ignore them, so she does and starts talking with me again, getting closer to me. She then tells me that shes gonna go talk to her friend, so I let her go, she comes back about 5 minutes later and gets beside me again and start talking and introduces her 2 friends to my 2 friends (how coincidental she had wingwomen haha). Afetr a bit of talking they wanna go dance, so she tells me, if you wanna have fun come upstairs well be there. About 5 minutes later, my 2 friends are already over there and I had no choice but to accompany them and this is where it gets tricky. They get on the raised stripper poles, only for girls, bouncers told us that :P and they did get a guy who was dancing with girls off of there. So we just kindof try to chill beside the raised platform and like all of sudden its like we didnt existed anymore, they danced for a while and I wasnt gonna act all needy so I went and opened a couple more sets a bit further. My friends stayed there. As I came back, they were still there but they pretty much left 5 minutes later without even acknowledging us.

Was going up with my friends about 5 minutes after she told me that came across as too needy, did I get cockblocked hard or was there some major magical dust in the air that made them completely forgot about us, or did they have too much drinks and didnt know what the fawk was going on. Im ready to gladly read all your theories and what to do so next time I dont ruin this opportunity of a lifetime (Maybe not that much but still she was pretty much my type :P)

Author:  hayhay86 [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 5:44 pm ]
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Should have got her number.

Author:  Dunkmeister [ Mon Oct 10, 2011 6:52 pm ]
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The thing is, when they left, I didnt want to appear all needy and just chase them too, and asking for her number before she told me they were gonna dance probably wouldve just sound as if I wasnt going to go up there and dance, she told me to come dance with her. I also couldnt ask for her number while she was dancing right ? So how should I have done this ? Risk the chance of appearing needy ?

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