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| Author: | hajrice [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 6:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Help: Going out with girl tomorrow (first date) |
There's a girl I met online and sorta met up with a month-or-so ago. The meetup was kind of terrible and short (we spent about 10 minutes on the street talking, etc. Not much kino). She was out with her friends at a gay bar or something, and so were were limited with time. I told her that I could only stay for a couple minutes as I had to get back to my friends Since then (it's been 2 weeks) there was a time gap. However, we recently started texting back and forth a lot. Lot of nice push and pull via text message. Now, we arranged a date. Here's how the text message went: There's a girl I met online and sorta met up with a month-or-so ago. The meetup was kind of terrible and short (we spent about 10 minutes on the street talking, etc. Not much kino). She was out with her friends at a gay bar or something, and so were were limited with time. I told her that I could only stay for a couple minutes as I had to get back to my friends Since then (it's been 2 weeks) there was a time gap. However, we recently started texting back and forth a lot. Lot of nice push and pull via text message. Now, we arranged a date. Here's how the text message went: There's a girl I met online and sorta met up with a month-or-so ago. The meetup was kind of terrible and short (we spent about 10 minutes on the street talking, etc. Not much kino). She was out with her friends at a gay bar or something, and so were were limited with time. I told her that I could only stay for a couple minutes as I had to get back to my friends Since then (it's been 2 weeks) there was a time gap. However, we recently started texting back and forth a lot. Lot of nice push and pull via text message. Now, we arranged a date. Here's how the text message went: Code: Her: How was dt 10:54 AM
Me: Crazy as always. I'm going to barton springs 11:28 AM
Her: Just waking up was so tired 12:34 PM
Me: Everytime I see you, I smile. When you walk, I laugh. When you speak, I get excited. For some reason, retarded people amuse the hell out of me! 12:39 PM
Her: (*｀へ´*) 12:47 PM
Her: Your words are like a dagger through my heart! Lol 12:48 PM
Me: I like talking to you and I don't play games. I think we're really good together. Lets try it if not that's cool and I'm glad we met. :) 12:48 PM
Her: Lol...is this you being serious for once! So surprised! You busy tomorrow we can grab latte if ya want or mojito :3 12:50 PM
Me: Haha, I'm serious. I like you. I'm free tomorrow after 2pm. 12:52 PM
Her: Kkk I'm free after 4 12:53 PM
Me: 8PM is play-a-game-and-win-a-free-drink hour. How about we meet at 8? Somewhere around UT Area (like spiderhouse) 12:58 PM
Her: Kkkk nigga text me then don't forget (*｀へ´*) 12:59 PM
However, I am not sure what to do now. What should I talk about on the first date? I'm usually horrible at first dates. As 99.99% of the first dates end up with the typical, boring, date. I'd really love some tips on: -> Where to take her out (I was thinking of a Hookah bar) -> What to talk about -> How to avoid being the boring "questions game" -> How to escalate with KINO and build sexual tension -> How to end a date without it being awkward [/code] |
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| Author: | stylemania [ Sun Oct 02, 2011 8:56 pm ] |
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Keep it light and positive Kino Joke with her (you seem to have this down really well) At the end of the first date, set up a second date (this is very important). Find common interests between the two of you and talk about those (again, very important). And remember to keep it genuine, that is very important. Have fun! And don't try to sell yourself. A first date is not like a job interview. Either there is a connection or there is not. Right? |
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| Author: | TheKrush [ Mon Oct 03, 2011 1:07 am ] |
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What I've been getting great results with as far as a cocky funny thing to do is the classic 'avoid telling her your job', I've pulled the 'i'm a pack parachutes for skydivers' that jay posted in one of the stickies, and the ever popular ass model, which lead to me doing a runway walk, in the end they were too busy having a good time to ask again. |
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