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Author:  goldenghetto [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Transition from open to building sexual tension
I've been doing some approaches now for the first time and have been running into problems. I open with an opinion or somethin along those lines and talk to them for a minute or two and then just kind of run out of stuff to say. I try to keep them laughing (maybe a neg) during the opener to keep them talking. However, i dont know how to transition it to a conversation where i can control the sexual tension. Doesn't seem like opinion openers are good if you want to control the conversation since it requires you listening to their answer.

Any advice on if i should maybe switch openers or threads/videos that can help me transition to building sexual tension when im not in control of the conversation (eg: getting them to ask me something).

Appreciate all the help i can get guys
Author:  Kier [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 5:53 pm ]
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I have the sample problem. I can open now with ease but sexually escalating the conversation I struggle with. Any help would be much appreciated.
Author:  khuram [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 6:32 pm ]
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okey guys that is easy to solve and there are many solutions. I would like to know do you use canned material or are you natural players? I need to know that so that i can guide u accordingly
Author:  T_Rex [ Sun Sep 25, 2011 7:26 pm ]
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Alright, so sexual tension starts with kino, find an excuse to hold her hand (hand reading, magic trick, etc). You have to be touching her like you're not even touching her, keep talking normally, make her laugh. If she takes her hand away, keep talking and approach break her comfort zone. Start to touch her again, take her hand and put it on your shoulders. You have to keep trying until she feels comfortable. Wash, Rince, Repeat. The only way she can feel uncomfortable is if you are, or show you are, so don't be! Once you have good constant kino, an other way to build sexual tension and bring it to the next level is constant eye contact and pauses between words. Become Sensual! Slow down your system and let her slowdown too! Then you're in total comfort with her! In no time you could even be KC her!
Hope i helped!
T_Rex :D
Author:  goldenghetto [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 4:42 am ]
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okey guys that is easy to solve and there are many solutions. I would like to know do you use canned material or are you natural players? I need to know that so that i can guide u accordingly
I try to be more of a natural player instead of using routines on girls...I really only use a routine to open then go to natural
Author:  khuram [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 5:07 am ]
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that's my boy. A natural player, great. I love the natural game.
So buddy here are my suggestions for you,
don't get fucked up by mystery method, yeah! Dat seems great blah blah blah but i am telling you fuck that, get out of it. Because if you don't get out of that, i would fuck you long time.
Here are a few suggestions to get you started on the right path
open the set (with whatever u want)
next step is to transition, and here is the golden rule of transitioning
"transtion off the opener onto your target"
so u got out off the opener (u should get off the opener as quick as u can)
after transitioning what should u do?
Build attraction?
Wrong
go for the comfort, not the deep comfort but situational comfort so that they are comfortable talking to you,
there are many ways to build comfort.
Now as soon as you sense that they are comfortable talking to you break rapport by negging or using statement of intent(afc adam and sinn do exactly the same), now create attraction and game as normal.
So how to sexualise the interaction quickly,
i am gonna give you two tools to do this
sexual tease
tease them sexually, "whosoever your last bf was, he clearly, didnt spank you enough"
if you or she spill ur or her drink on her "oh i am sorry, i got you all wet, i have that affect on women"
u can use ,"i have that effect on women" in various ways
you got the point? Ok now the second tools
statement of intent
they are also a great way to sexualise interaction quickly, example
"i just got a naughty thought"
"you know, i am totally thinking about kissing u"
"if i were drunk toni8, i would have kissed you"
"if no one were here, i would have bent you over the table" etc
you can also blend statement or intent into compliments
"you know i really like that you are so caring about your friend, i really like that even though i am trying to get into your pents"
plus keep the kino up.
I hope that helped. Feel free to ask any questionse), now create attraction and game as normal.
So how to sexualise the interaction quickly,
i am gonna give you two tools to do this
sexual tease
tease them sexually, "whosoever your last bf was, he clearly, didnt spank you enough"
if you or she spill ur or her drink on her "oh i am sorry, i got you all wet, i have that affect on women"
u can use ,"i have that effect on women" in various ways
you got the point? Ok now the second tools
statement of intent
they are also a great way to sexualise interaction quickly, example
"i just got a naughty thought"
"you know, i am totally thinking about kissing u"
"if i were drunk toni8, i would have kissed you"
"if no one were here, i would have bent you over the table" etc
you can also blend statement or intent into compliments
"you know i really like that you are so caring about your friend, i really like that even though i am trying to get into your pents"
plus keep the kino up.
I hope that helped. Feel free to ask any questions
Author:  goldenghetto [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 10:42 pm ]
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Thank you so much for that! That's pretty much exactly what i was looking for. Sometimes i need a guideline; i don't always know when to move to a different stage in the attraction process.
Author:  khuram [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 4:32 am ]
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any more questions buddy? We are here to help you my friend
Author:  goldenghetto [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:06 am ]
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i've built some rapport with this girl im currently talking to with texting, however she has a boyfriend although she has been known to "stray". I've negged her a couple times, gave her a small confidence boost, and made her laugh a lot. I think it's time to start building sexual tension but i'm not quite sure. I also don't want to do a statement of intent because thats always ended bad for me (although probably havent done it right).

any ideas? or maybe i'm not at the stage to start building sexual tension. we've exchanged about 40 texts in 4hrs
Author:  khuram [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 5:31 am ]
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did you qualify her ?
Author:  goldenghetto [ Tue Sep 27, 2011 8:37 pm ]
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I don't think i did, at least not consciously. How do i upload texts as links on here? then i could show you the conversation
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