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Author:  herpyderp [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 10:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Being ignored by girl, done nothing wrong... HELP?
So I've been seeing this girl. She said she liked me, and I said it back, about two weeks ago. We've been on about 6 dates, no awkward moments, they've all been good. I was planning on asking her to be my gf soon.

We've been texting literally every day for the last month and a bit. Sometimes she initiates, sometimes I do. I was texting her yesterday (she initiated it, and was showing plenty of interest) and it all went good until last night. She starting ignoring me. That was about 24 hours ago, and today, I sent her a text just like "Hi what's up" and no reply. Said hi on instant messaging tonight and got a ? in return. I asked is some things up and she gave me an incoherent reply, just jibberish... I don't know what to do. All the times we date it's good, kissing etc, and yesterday she was showing strong interest via text. Then ignoring. I didn't offend her or saying anything bad, argue or anything...

What should I do?

1. Nothing, wait till she contacts me.
2. Text her tommorow and act like nothing happened.
3. Text her tommorow and query her.
4. Ask her friend what's going on?

I like this girl, and I want to maximise my chances with her. Thanks.
Author:  Rag&BoneMan [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 1:47 am ]
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Welcome to the forums :) cool name. Just a few questions I'd ask.

How old are you guys? (i.e. are we talking school/uni or something older)
How far have you gone? (I've read kissing. Anything more)

If I where you I'd stop contacting her for a bit, if you are willing to walk you'd get her asking after you. Right now it sounds like you're chasing her, just tell me if I'm out of line on that.

Whether my advice above is valid or not I'd really drive one thing home don't panic, there are lots of reasons she may not be contacting you. Don't assume it's your fault :)

Let me know your thoughts

R&B
Author:  herpyderp [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 8:13 am ]
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We're both 18, just out of school. The furthest we've gone is making out pretty much. Yeah you'd be right in saying I was chasing her, but not very much, it was like 1 text and 1 instant message then I was like fuck it :P

I'm just at odds what to do now, I know I shouldn't do anything but I'm impatient lol
Author:  olds929 [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 11:43 am ]
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The best thing u can do now is to ignore her also, and wait for her to contact you first. When she does, don';t appear happy and needy etc.
Author:  Herne [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 11:50 am ]
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Dont bother asking her what was wrong--from experience they never tell the real truth on that one anyway
Author:  olds929 [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 11:58 am ]
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Yes dont ask. It will only make things worst. If you act as if you don't care, it will be even better for you.
Author:  herpyderp [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 12:27 pm ]
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Cheers for the reply guys.
Author:  NaturalE [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 5:36 pm ]
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The guys are right, its time for a freezeout.

not forever but be patient.
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