PUA Forum :: girl at a bar, in college

instead of saying "i might fall in love", i would say "you cant look at me like that and not say anything". but either one can work, depending on which one caters to your personality more.

after that opener and assuming she laughs, i would transition into an opinion question (preferably about something that happened that night. just make something up). At a normal bar, i would be more direct but after being in college bars countless times, direct openers usually dont work well unless you are exceptionally good looking.

Author:	Danny_pt [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 4:57 pm ]
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So yesterday I was out at a bar with some friends from college and then i looked to my left and caught a gorgeous blond with her beautiful blue eyes looking at me but as soon as i saw her i turned my head back to my friends and only then did i realize she was trying eye contact with me. I looked at her again and she was looking again but as I turned my head at her she nervously looked away. I was thinking about using this opener: "Hey, dont look at me like that or I'll fall in love". But I have a question: what do I say after this opener? what do we talk about? I didn't approach her cause i had this question in my head! I'm sure i'll find her again cause that wasn't the first time i saw her, so please help me, i want to go talk to her next time.

Author:	Mr-Rev [ Wed Sep 21, 2011 7:18 pm ]
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Say it, hopefully she'll laugh even if it is just at the cheesyness Laugh to and follow with "But really, hi, I'm Danny" and shake her hand, she'll introduce herself and it's chit chat from there. Just, talk. Could mention you have seen her a few times here, live, work, go to school near by? Just anything to keep conversation flowing. Just have the nerve to talk in a normal way always gains brownie points.

Author:	olds929 [ Thu Sep 22, 2011 11:53 am ]
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You could be like: I have seen you around here many times. Are you stalking me ? And laugh!

Author:	SmoothLee [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 2:29 pm ]
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instead of saying "i might fall in love", i would say "you cant look at me like that and not say anything". but either one can work, depending on which one caters to your personality more. after that opener and assuming she laughs, i would transition into an opinion question (preferably about something that happened that night. just make something up). At a normal bar, i would be more direct but after being in college bars countless times, direct openers usually dont work well unless you are exceptionally good looking.

Author:	Habitual Jerk [ Mon Sep 26, 2011 2:38 pm ]
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Quote: Just have the nerve to talk in a normal way always gains brownie points. Quote: You could be like: I have seen you around here many times. Are you stalking me ? And laugh! Quote: instead of saying "i might fall in love", i would say "you cant look at me like that and not say anything". but either one can work, depending on which one caters to your personality more. after that opener and assuming she laughs, i would transition into an opinion question (preferably about something that happened that night. just make something up). At a normal bar, i would be more direct but after being in college bars countless times, direct openers usually dont work well unless you are exceptionally good looking. All good stuff. Don't say the fall in love thing, you'll sound like a chump.

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