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Author:  Ownsick [ Mon Sep 12, 2011 5:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Drawing attention to me
I guess I'm failing very basic aspects of PUA..

But I happened to be on a group of guys, and girls joined and I targeted.

Well, all was going well, I was basically sarging her.

But I just couldn't draw attention to me, to be the alpha in there.

I just laid back and tried to neg her and pretend like I really don't care, but with this, all the other guys where story-telling, one particulary was the center of the group, he just kept talking all the time..

Well, idk if this worked, I did saw some IOI from her, but there was no way I could escalate.

Also, I couldn't just AMOG them all, so I just AMOG the main guy...

I kept being different from all the others who just where hitting the girls really hard and mostly failing.

How can I draw attention (sneakly if possible) and become the center of the group in this situation?


Sorry for the long text :)


- ownsick
Author:  blacksun [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 11:53 am ]
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most of the time i just role with. you could try and rearange the conversation yourself and bringing the convo to a bit of banter between everyone. mostly the guys. at least then your taking control. dont try too hard though. jsut because one guy is being the centre of atention doesnt mean its a good thing. most of the time when one guys getting all the attention then you can easily get one on one then. use him as a distraction :).
Author:  somebody delete this shit [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 5:23 pm ]
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Just approach the girl directly and start talking to her

eventually the other people in the set will star tto wonder who you are and come talk to you
Author:  Ownsick [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:37 am ]
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Just approach the girl directly and start talking to her

eventually the other people in the set will star tto wonder who you are and come talk to you

Well, I already knew all the group. Only the 2 girls were new.

And I can't approach directly, 'cause everyone was trying to do it with both girls, and apparentely failing.
Author:  Ownsick [ Wed Sep 14, 2011 11:39 am ]
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most of the time i just role with. you could try and rearange the conversation yourself and bringing the convo to a bit of banter between everyone. mostly the guys. at least then your taking control. dont try too hard though. jsut because one guy is being the centre of atention doesnt mean its a good thing. most of the time when one guys getting all the attention then you can easily get one on one then. use him as a distraction :).


Yeah, interesting idea. Still have to think harder on how to create attraction first. If I approach her just like all the guys were doing (trying) I'd probably fail as well, that's why I wanted to be center of group.
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