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Author:  retro_boy [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  telling a girl you like her no matter what.
hey guys, id love to hear your opinions on telling a girl you like her no matter what signals she is putting out towards you or how much she hangs with you or how long you've known her for, etc.

my reason for asking is say for example there's a girl who you really like perhaps a potential long term girlfriend material but she only hangs out on occasions with you , she doesn't really send out many positive signals maybe a few negative ones, her texts messages aren't showing loads of interest in your life or shes not asking a lot of questions about you, etc etc.

BUT what do you guys think about telling her you like her or saying something along those lines, taking the chance that her learning the fact that you like her will change everything and maybe change her mind on you and she will start to show more interest and might even say she likes you back.

Also i know its not really part of the pua method to just tell a girl you like her for several reasons i wont bother saying because you all know them, but cant just taking a chance and telling a girl you like her because it might just completely change things around for the better work in some situations?
Author:  jabmaster [ Sun Sep 11, 2011 6:16 pm ]
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I can only say high risk-high reward.
Author:  Octave [ Mon Sep 12, 2011 8:46 pm ]
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exactly what jab said. He risk high reward.

If she has an interest, she will show it after you tell her how you feel, but if she doesnt, she is gonna also tell you. So be ready for both responses
Author:  ConcreteRose [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 11:19 am ]
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I wouldn't do it if you're not sure she's interested in you, unless you don't really care about the interaction and just want to see what you can get out of it as soon as possible.
Author:  retro_boy [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 3:24 pm ]
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I wouldn't do it if you're not sure she's interested in you, unless you don't really care about the interaction and just want to see what you can get out of it as soon as possible.
see thats what i thought at first but i see telling a girl you like her as almost a win win situation .. you win because she might like you back or when she finds out you like her feelings may grow.. and win because if she just avoids you after you tell her, well its not what a nice functional person does (unless you told her in a creepy way) and you dont need people like that in your life right?

i told a girl i like her and she didnt feel the same way and it did get a bit awkward for her i suppose and we dont talk any more but i dont feel bad about it because now i look at it she cant be that genuine if she just avoids me (and i was a good friend) and it shone some light onto the girl i really liked and i found out she wasnt all that of a person.

and i mean telling her at a reasonable time not the second time you meet her or something to soon, anyone would find that desperate or creepy and would have a good reason to avoid you! :D
Author:  Iwan [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:11 pm ]
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never, ever do that. done this myself few times before and it is attraction killer. By doing this You give all control to her. But if u want to try it, do it after You fucked her few times
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