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| Author: | Olburgs [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 3:58 am ] |
| Post subject: | Bad friends? |
A few examples: Example A: I am with some friends at the bar. I see a girl, walk up to her start chatting eventually she ends talking with all of us. Exchange numbers. Scarcely sending some text messages(teasing a little bit) and text messages change to rather sexual. Then it stops. Later I see a mate of mine from the same night at the bar, apparently he exchanged his number too and been texting her ever since. Example B: Another night, another girl, been dancing with her. I take a break and just go chat a bit with mate, then another friend (same as ex. A) just goes towards that girl and starts dancing with her. I'm all up for a fair game but I am not getting the impression anymore that it's a fair game. I am feeling that there are structural problems and that I am doing all the 'meet and greeting' and some other people are just ratting in on what I can pull. And it is happening on a more structural level, it's not seperated cases anymore. It happens often. What can I do against this? I don't intend to go out anymore with the person in ex. A & B. But I am trying to arm against this happening in the future. It feels to me that some others don't respect me. |
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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 4:01 am ] |
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Don't bring douchebag friends around. |
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| Author: | Olburgs [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 4:06 am ] |
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Quote: Don't bring douchebag friends around. Yeah true, but I get the feeling that for everyone of those I 'cut' out of my friends circle, there is another waiting to be the same.
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| Author: | Audioman213 [ Wed Sep 07, 2011 4:35 am ] |
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Sounds like they're just thriving off of your game, instead of establishing their own. Just keep a distance from them in clubs when you're trying to do your thing. Or just let them know that you want a certain person and for them to back off. I'm not PUA, just a regular person and to me this sounds like bs that I'd be pissed about. |
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| Author: | tippicanoe [ Thu Sep 08, 2011 11:25 pm ] |
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You don't have to go out with friends. Hanging out with friends and gaming often doesn't work out. Instead just go out to a bar or wherever you game and fly solo. Then no one can ride on your game. |
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