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Author:  d_webster [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 5:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Strip Clubs..

This is a similar post to Valentyn's but is there a way to pick up strippers because there is one that I have my eye on lol.

Author:  stefangreyman [ Tue Sep 06, 2011 6:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Strip Clubs..

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This is a similar post to Valentyn's but is there a way to pick up strippers because there is one that I have my eye on lol.
I game a lot of strippers and have had a lot of success over the years. There is no magic bullet, but here are some of the things that have worked...

* When she is dancing, sit up at the stage, call her down with a gesture, and talk to her really normally, matter of fact, while you lean in close and show non-verbal interest within the limits of what is allowable in the club... this will be obvious from watching.

* Don't spend too much time watching, and never sit all the way through a set she is dancing... stay as long as you are interacting, not longer.

* Use a behavioral neg, suggesting that she is obviously too much trouble..., or make the neg a kind of back-handed comp.... e.g. "From where I'm sitting, you seem like crime on two legs."

* Comment on accessories... piercings, tattoos, but only if you are generally interested.

* Create social proof by getting on with (1) bar tender--always tip the bar tender, start talking to him right away, (2) the girls among the other dancers who are her friends.

Stuff to remember:

--You have to recalibrate what you understand as an IOI; her job is to give guys IOIs, so what you are trying to create is a situation where she will give higher level IOIs to you, which you can't calibrate without knowing the micro culture of the club

--Don't focus all on one girl, you become more attractive to all of the girls, if any one of them escalates IOIs to you above the normal level

--Don't do lap dances, private dances, etc.--the reason is that even if she likes you, she is always tempted to game you for $$, because this is how she makes a living--and once you are in the mark category, it will be hard to get out.


good luck

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