PUA Forum :: Girlfriend Talks too Much

I've been with her a couple of months now and when we're together, it's fine until she starts talking.

She can honestly talk about absolutely NOTHING for 10 minutes straight, going off into a completely unrelated crap story. I know the advice for this would be to carry the conversation, lead it the way you want it to go, I do this. I start the conversations on things that interest me and somehow, she ends up talking about crap.

I've tried cutting her threads, but when I start talking she literally will not stop, I've tried talking over her but she will continue talking even when I am. We've actually had half a conversation of us both talking at the same time because she doesn't stop. I don't understand it?

The other day for instance, I was talking about Body Language, and somehow, she ended up talking about how her friend got drunk and threw up? The conversation literally switched in seconds.

She even says that she knows she talks too much, and that people take the mick out of her for it. I don't understand why she doesn't just shut her mouth for 5 minutes?

How do I combat this? It's genuinely a serious question and I'm considering breaking up with her because of it.

Author:	Danzella [ Sun Aug 21, 2011 10:30 pm ]
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I've been with her a couple of months now and when we're together, it's fine until she starts talking. She can honestly talk about absolutely NOTHING for 10 minutes straight, going off into a completely unrelated crap story. I know the advice for this would be to carry the conversation, lead it the way you want it to go, I do this. I start the conversations on things that interest me and somehow, she ends up talking about crap. I've tried cutting her threads, but when I start talking she literally will not stop, I've tried talking over her but she will continue talking even when I am. We've actually had half a conversation of us both talking at the same time because she doesn't stop. I don't understand it? The other day for instance, I was talking about Body Language, and somehow, she ended up talking about how her friend got drunk and threw up? The conversation literally switched in seconds. She even says that she knows she talks too much, and that people take the mick out of her for it. I don't understand why she doesn't just shut her mouth for 5 minutes? How do I combat this? It's genuinely a serious question and I'm considering breaking up with her because of it.

Author:	Little Panda [ Mon Aug 22, 2011 11:22 am ]
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"SHUT YOUR MOUTH WOMAN." In a nice way. You might be able to explain to her that you feel as if she's not listening to you properly and it's annoying you. And since you're seriously considering breaking up with her - you can definitely just go ahead and throw that out there. Simply tell her that you feel disrespected/annoyed or whatever when she does the thing she does and that her behavior is slightly rude. Also add in one of those 'we'll do this together' and explain that when you talk, you walk and when she talks, you will equally respect her for that. Teamwork.

Author:	chris501 [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:46 pm ]
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if you spoken to her about it and nothings changed, id cut my loss's and walk away, thats just her as a person, never gonna change that.

Author:	TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 23, 2011 10:56 pm ]
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Block her lips from moving all the time by blocking them with, Oh, I don't know, your lips?

Author:	PotentialBrah [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 11:37 am ]
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i guess my advice would be that....you can't stop it, you can only tame the beast for a certain amount of time..until it gets free again. She talks a lot, that's her personality. You could find someone that doesn't talk as much lol

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Author:	paznoz [ Wed Aug 24, 2011 1:27 pm ]
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haha, I dunno man. If thats her then thats her. Maybe just walk away and talk to someone else. I'd just find someone more interesting who can focus on one conversation.

Author:	P-Style [ Thu Aug 25, 2011 6:43 pm ]
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Say to her she needs to shut the fuck up from time to time. And otherwise end it.

Author:	saugnoob [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 1:20 am ]
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Quote: I've been with her a couple of months now and when we're together, it's fine until she starts talking. She can honestly talk about absolutely NOTHING for 10 minutes straight, going off into a completely unrelated crap story. I know the advice for this would be to carry the conversation, lead it the way you want it to go, I do this. I start the conversations on things that interest me and somehow, she ends up talking about crap. I've tried cutting her threads, but when I start talking she literally will not stop, I've tried talking over her but she will continue talking even when I am. We've actually had half a conversation of us both talking at the same time because she doesn't stop. I don't understand it? The other day for instance, I was talking about Body Language, and somehow, she ended up talking about how her friend got drunk and threw up? The conversation literally switched in seconds. She even says that she knows she talks too much, and that people take the mick out of her for it. I don't understand why she doesn't just shut her mouth for 5 minutes? How do I combat this? It's genuinely a serious question and I'm considering breaking up with her because of it. Stick your d**k in her mouth. haha im surprised someone didnt say this already.

Author:	MynameisFisher [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 7:49 am ]
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Quote: Stick your d**k in her mouth. haha im surprised someone didnt say this already. It was sort of hinted before And yeah that's probably the best way to shut her up. Teach her why that big mouth of hers was given to her

Author:	Lodewijkp [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 5:10 pm ]
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you guys are all wrong .. you aren't looking to the underlying context of what she's saying. her words don't mean shit because she is thinking something else. she is expressing some emotions which you are unable to observe .. it seems.. there could be a issue in the relationship , she wants to express her insecurity to you OR she wants you to lead - somekind of shit test to build up sexual tension. i always assume that woman are trying to communicate some emotions to me.

Author:	Lionheart213 [ Fri Aug 26, 2011 11:26 pm ]
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Dealing with many girls daily in my life (hoes,strippers,porn-stars) because of my job. I come across them all. And one thing I noticed many years of dealing with these big mouths is that they love to fuck. So beleave it or not, you actually need to fuck her more instead of pull away from her. The reason she is talking so much is she is trying to get your attention and get feed back from her leader which is you. By fucking her she will feel as if you are giving her that needed attention that she is craving. Also you can then start to curve her annoying traits you dis-like so much.(All the got_damn talking) When she starts on all that talking, you start talking dirty in her ear. You will notice she will slow down the talking as her mind starts gearing up for sex which is (LESS TALKING) more action. Then once you have more control of her. When she start going off at the month... you grab her hand and say.... listen listen listen.... slow down sit there and calm down for me. Just calm down...and be quiet for me baby. You do these steps over and over and I can swear to it, you will have a calm quiet girlfriend that will only start talking out of control when you let her get away with it.

Author:	P-Style [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 9:45 am ]
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Quote: she is expressing some emotions which you are unable to observe .. it seems.. I've had a girl who just did not stop talking. Talking, talking, talking. Mostly boring stuff. And when I said something I'd be like "Omg I've had to too, blablabla she continues." It's kinda the same thing the TS is describing here and it had few to do with emotions. She just loved to chat. And she loved it far too much. Had to end it because I went mad of her continuous jibberjabber.

Author:	Lodewijkp [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 1:33 pm ]
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it's because she's seeking approval.. that's why she talks - she consumes your attention and energy. nobody says shit without a reason .. everything is done with a reason , concious or unconcious.

Author:	Vitamin-J [ Sat Aug 27, 2011 7:51 pm ]
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last time my girl was talking too much I threw a load of fresh laundry on her and she fell asleep.

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