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Author:  Consistence [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 8:12 am ]
Post subject:  She asks about "the game" OMG
hahahahaha

I have been with my gf for over 2 years now, we´re not THAT serious though, for me it´s rather a part of a fun life, don´t know agout her :lol:

Yesterday she had been with some of her girlfriends and they were so irritated that all the boys used the same pick-up lines, and then the question came up... :shock:

Her: Have you heard about "the game?"
Me: well... uhm... yes, I think all boys have heard about that book lol.
Her: What?? did you use that book to check me up? :P
Me: No, lol... I didn´t use any pick-up lines to check you up :P But I know the main points from the book of course :P

Then she started to talk about her girlfriends opinion of the book and how tired they were of arrogant boys :p Now she wants to read it !!!!!!!! :shock:

So where am I up in this? I have basically learned all my releationship game from sites like this, but I have only read bits and pieces of "the game". Will she bust me???
Author:  Consistence [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 8:16 am ]
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Fuck!!!

I now read on wikipedia that "the game" is about how to keep the upper hand in a relationship and romantic life :shock:

She has always been like "Why are you so different from all of my exes?" "I hate that you don´t care, but I love it lol!" etc.

Now I guess I am busted :?:
Author:  mcare [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 9:52 am ]
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Don't worry. Let her read the book. If she'll have any questions just tell her that the main point is not to decieve women but to get a deeper connection in existing relationship and opurtunity to connect with women you wish to approach. So you didn't "game her" but used your knowledge to get to know her.

Or some bullshit like that. j/k
Author:  sunnydelight [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 10:47 am ]
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Let her read the book and casually shrug it off as something "other guys" do. If she's sharp and realises you do this to her and doesn't like it, you will either have to do some very fast talking or be getting yourself a new girlfriend.
Author:  WildePUA [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 1:44 pm ]
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I was on a day 2 with a girl, and messing with her. She said she didn't like kissing in public, and I said I could tell she wanted to because of the way she acted, and it turned out she's read the game and busted me on the IOI's. I told her i'd never heard of it, but I've always been good at reading people, she believed me and it was a huge DHV lol. I turned her from not wanting to kiss in public to grabbing me and forcing her tounge down my throat. Crazy days :)
Author:  pleasureseeker [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 1:59 pm ]
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that book is a story about style's experience getting into pick-up it doesn't really teach you anything about pick-up....
Author:  Hinduplaya [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 6:11 pm ]
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id say keep your frame whether she tries to bust you on it or not. you simply do not care about some book. even get annoyed if she keeps persisting
Author:  TheFreshPrince [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 1:59 am ]
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I would have totally told her:

Yeah, babe, I did. And it was hard work, too! You weren't easy. Plus I had to read this whole thing; do you know how big that book is?
Author:  nnguy625 [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 8:26 pm ]
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I would have totally told her:

Yeah, babe, I did. And it was hard work, too! You weren't easy. Plus I had to read this whole thing; do you know how big that book is?
Nice, that's honest, genuine, and flattering to the girl.

I honestly think you should just tell her the truth. If you've read only a little because you were curious just let her know, I've heard about it, I've read it because I was curious and yeah I kinda use it. You can say what the fresh prince said or you can just say, I was at an area where I did not completely understand how attraction and relationship works so I looked for sources to better this area or part of my life. It took some work but here I am. If she wants to read it, let her read it. What do you get to lose? If you're confident and you know that with or without her reading it, you can kep her then just be honest with her. If she understands great, if she doesn't help her understand.



- Nelson
Author:  MrJP [ Tue Aug 02, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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The game is only about bring out "the best you". Allowing you time to get your personality across long enough to get the women to like you. Sure there are a few canned lines, but unless it's natural, it really shows. You'd have to be a bloody good actor to keep up being somebody else for two years. She's a grow women, if she really wants to read it she will.
Author:  intrigued101 [ Tue Sep 13, 2011 11:52 am ]
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that book is a story about style's experience getting into pick-up it doesn't really teach you anything about pick-up....
Not true. I learned a load from it. Styles documents his learning curve, successes and failures which the reader takes on board.

As for the whole talk to your girl about pua and the game it's something that's been on my mind recently.

I've recently found myself talking to girls about pu when in bars. I might be talking to a girl and then ask her what the best approach is. She will say something like introduce yourself, ask how are you. I then call her on that and say you'd prefer it is a guy came in and directly told you 'You fucking hot'. She might then get embarrassed but know deep down I am right. It then becomes a pick up role play situation. It feels like an odd style but seems to work. Girls love dating, emotions, social awareness, sex. Talking pua is a fascinating topic for them. It also doesn't frame it as I am picking you up. If it doesn't work you get an interesting female insight. It's definitely something I want to play with more.

But if it's your girlfriend I am not sure a lot of good can come from it. 'Yeah I read mystery method, posted 100 times on a forum, and watched hours of youtube video to find out the best way to get a girl into bed. Looks like it worked pretty well with you' :P However I do like to talk to her about things I am curious about. For example sex being a gift that a girl gives to a guy. I talk about how a friends girlfriend uses it as a weapon "Looks like someone isn't getting any tonight" which I think is bullshit. Sex is a mutual experience which is pleasurable for both. If anything it is a gift a guy gives a girl (when was the last time you screamed and had multiple orgasms during sex?). Talking in this way is both a way for me to a female perspective and to put across a point as an Alpha.
Author:  Coldman [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 2:56 pm ]
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The game isn't about using routines/lines that you read online or in a book and then making them work. The game is about improving yourself to be more social/seductive. How to maintain conversations, what's attractive to woman so you can improve on that.

Thinking that she'll "find out" that you used manipulative tricks to "get" her says a lot of where you are on your journey... not a good place, keep going.

When I use shit like the cube/strawberry fields or whatever (Which I rarely do anymore), I ALWAYS tell them honestly that I read it online or in some psychology book. Which to me, the game is a psychology book. (Just not scientifically written :P). So if that's the case and she wanted to read "The Game" and went: "OMG YOU USED THIS ON ME!!!", I would just tell her calmly: "Well, yeah... duhhh... I told you I read it online."


p.s. What do you see as "relationship game"?
Author:  Slip n Slide [ Mon Sep 19, 2011 9:02 pm ]
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I'm just interested to see what she thinks after she reads it. Style really honestly describes the experience, it'd be hard not to be sympathetic. But I'd say yeah and describe it as self improvement. I generally tell girls very early in knowing them that I'm really into self improvement, kind of as a way to be honest about something I spend this much time on.
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