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| Author: | 100% [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Should i wait? |
Ive been messin with this chick for about a mounth all sex and haing out on the daily, I truly never wanted hear to be my girl but she started asking whaen i was going to make it official and on friday i finally made a knee jerk reaction and said she could be my girl she was so happy. The very next day i was already regreting it she started acting stupid and i sat her down and said "hey we should take some time apart" she said i agree we should wait then. we walked in my room to watch tv and chill she was very upset she was like we should just be friends and no sexual stuff. Then i acted as if i didnt care she was just so mad i kind of joked with her about how long the relationship was so long and i even said hey just so you know i broke up with u ok HAHA. She then stormed out i waited then walked outside and said were are you going she said home i then said why are you acting so immature she said me immature i said ya i might have come off immature asweel she just kept walking i said hey im not coming out here to try to be your boyfriend i just want to give you a ride home she was pist and kept walking so i walked back to the apartment to get my keys taking my time (I was cool as a cucumber the whole time calm voice smooth body-language) so i drive slow see her walking out of the appt complex i said hey do you want a ride she just kept walking i drove slow beside her for about 30 seconds I said Hey i dont want to bother you so if you want me to go i will go and you wont see me again she stoped got in the car all pissed i then was nice appologised if i came off wrong told her it was best that we take some time apart, droped her off i tolled her i would wait to make sure that someone awnserd the door and she never let me know if anyone ever did awnser the door i was discusted. She texted me late that night sayin i want to talk about us she did that twice i never responded. the very next day she texted me in the morning trying to talk to me i no responded. then she shows up at my work trys to talk to me i just ignore her. she text me later that day saying i understand why ur mad at me but you said we can still be friends. that night she text me sayin theres a bondfire at the beach and we should go it would be fun she would put gas in my car (i didnt respond) later that night she text me saying please forgive me... she called twice i still kept ignoring her.. She tould me once before we should just be friend and stop messing around and she still gave me the Puss. this girl is 18 and she always tales me how much fellings she has for me and she even toled me that before we had sex that once she has sex with a guy she gets very strong feelings for that person. Question is how long should i wait before starting comunication again? Because i still want to have her as a option for sex. |
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| Author: | AttractionKings [ Mon Jul 25, 2011 5:22 am ] |
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Girls always grow feelings for guys they f*ck. Its like the law or something. It depends on whether you wanna keep this chick as a friend or just a f*ck buddy. If you wanna keep her a friend let her know you wanna be friends and see if she'll still have sex with you. If you just wanna have sex than tell her you need time and aren't ready for commitment yet and continue to bang her. She seems really easy so either way you'll get sex i presume. Have fun. |
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| Author: | Wal [ Tue Jul 26, 2011 3:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should i wait? |
Quote: She texted me late that night sayin i want to talk about us she did that twice i never responded. the very next day she texted me in the morning trying to talk to me i no responded. then she shows up at my work trys to talk to me i just ignore her. she text me later that day saying i understand why ur mad at me but you said we can still be friends. that night she text me sayin theres a bondfire at the beach and we should go it would be fun she would put gas in my car (i didnt respond) later that night she text me saying please forgive me... she called twice i still kept ignoring her..
I think you're safe to contact her after all this.Pick up can make you a weird person. Remember that when you finally respond to this girl. Whatever you do, be perfectly honest by stating very clearly what you do and do not want out of your relationship with this girl. If you want to keep fooling around, without commitment, say so, and let her decide for herself if that is okay with her. Whatever you do, don't mislead her about your intentions. And, cheers for being honest with her and yourself. You backed out of a mistake right away, and that takes balls. (You handled it poorly, but at least you weren't lying) |
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