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| Author: | jrs87 [ Fri Jul 15, 2011 10:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Not teasing or flirting with gf like in the beginning. Why? |
Been seeing this girl for a few months now and before that we were texting for a good two months and going on a few dates. In the beginning I was much more flirty and teased her which age later told me she liked and found attractive. She still teases me but I don't really do it back anymore. I still really like her but I guess I just feel comfortable with her now and don't feel I don't need to do that whole push pull thing anymore because shes already attracted. She said recently again how she likes being teased as finds it attractive. Why don't I do it anymore? I want to but Im doing it unless I make myself and I feel that i shouldnt have to consciously think to do it. I feel like I am less attractive if I'm not doing it now though and that maybe its a vital part of a relationship which keeps the attraction there. Part of me feels like its only something you do at the beginning when trying to attract a girl and after that you can just be yourself and not have to tear and flirt. |
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| Author: | driedfruit [ Fri Jul 15, 2011 7:52 pm ] |
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You're getting comfortable. You need to revive your charm. Just because she's yours doesn't mean she'll stay yours. Trust me. I am breaking up with my girlfriend tonight because the whole relationship went down the shit hole. Part of it was because I lost my frame and she took control. I stopped being the confident tease that she met and fell for. Every now and then treat her like it's your 2nd or 3rd date together. Don't become boring! |
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| Author: | SomeYoungGuy [ Wed Jul 20, 2011 3:48 pm ] |
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Every now and then treat her like it's your 2nd or 3rd date together. Don't become boring!
I love this advice. Always date your girlfriend, in the sense that you should have the mindset of still trying to get her attracted to you each day. Don't stop doing what you did that made her attracted to you in the first place.
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| Author: | djdante [ Thu Jul 21, 2011 2:47 am ] |
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for the OP: I used to (not any more), love being in the business of sleeping with women who were in relationships. One of the key things I'd look for is whether her boyfriend makes her feel sexy, and desirable. That' something a woman ALWAYS needs to feel, and if her boyfriend doesn't make her feel that way, then she will find someone else who will. You should never become complacent in a relationship, or the relationship will burn out. Flirting with a woman, teasing her, having fun, laughing, is something that you should never ever stop doing. Don't think of it as push/pull, think of it as simply teasing and having fun, because that's what it's meant to be. To be honest though, your post makes it sounds like you don't really care too much about this chick. In which case you should cut her loose and go on your way and stop wasting her time and yours. There are soo many cool chicks out there, never tie yourself to one unless she actually means something to you. I'm not suggesting you should suddenly start supplicating to her, but you want to keep creating attraction or things will start to go backwards. |
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