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| Author: | PapaWolf (mikeycasanova) [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 5:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Anyone else NOT like multiple long term relationships? |
Talk about work! Man I've had girlfriends that wanted to see me everyday, still sorta do. It's exhausting. A few times I've been in multiple relationships at the same time, at the most 4 women. But I wasn't any happier with guaranteed lays by four women than I was with just 1. I'd usually run out of money in a few months and have slowly get rid of the ones I liked the least. Now I'm not saying I'm an expert in MLTR's but I am saying I've tried in a few times and even the jew in me had to dish out money for dates. I mean how often can you stay in a fuck while watching a re-run of two and half men. It definitely made me look cool in front of friends but if I saw each girl twice a week that leaves almost no time for myself, friends or family. Girls don't exactly like to stick around when they only see you twice a month. Just my thought on this. I'd prefer either being single with a fuck buddy or two and being free to game new women when I want OR being in a relationship. |
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| Author: | Dalinkin [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 9:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Anyone else NOT like multiple long term relationships? |
Quote: I'd prefer either being single with a fuck buddy or two and being free to game new women when I want OR being in a relationship.
I'm confused by this. What else is there? Isn't that like saying I'd rather be single OR in a relationship? Aren't those the only options.Idk how you can pull off 4 LTR relationships at once, but to each his own eh? |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 9:55 pm ] |
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maybe just try casual dating |
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| Author: | BigRyana [ Fri Jul 08, 2011 3:11 am ] |
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I don't understand the question, is there someone forcing you to date 4 women at once in a LTR? If not, then why not just do what you listed as "wanting" to do? |
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| Author: | The Big Bad Wolf [ Sun Jul 10, 2011 12:23 am ] |
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The question is more of a rhetorical one. While fishing for whether there are anyone else here that are able to make the wheels go round with four extra people to care for. In my experience, Long Term relationships are costly, and I'm talking mostly about time and effort that goes into maintenance here, so the more girls (or boys, if you're into that), the more time you have to spend with them and the less you'll have for yourself. Also, it can turn out to be a drag on money, since you are kinda obliged to spend quality time together, so the expected expenses are thereby multiplied (anything from bottles of wine and dinners to gasoline spent getting from each to the other.) You could organize into one Primary Relationship, with several Lovers/Secondary Relationships where you allocate time and such by rating, but I doubt that will be long-lived. Try having a single relationship, but open it up a little. (Lovers, occasionally gaming, SNLs etc.) |
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