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Author:  JuanAntonioB [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 7:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Keeping GF on high at all times?

Ok GF and I have a really good relationship but, im getting the feeling that Im keeping her at the emotional high point all the time, and Im not sure if this is good or bad.

Examples, her texts are always like "i miss u so much cant wait to see u etc etc"

When we see each other, we are all over each other all the time.

And I DO reciprocrate.

So, is this good/healthy or not??

Ive never been in a serious long term relationship so Im not too sure how I should lead after like 3 month point

Author:  Wal [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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Warning! Warning! Relationship-Bot 3000 detects signs of a healthy relationship! What... is... love...? :lol:

/nerd

Just... just make sure you guys each have some time to yourselves, to do your own thing.

The only thing I might ask: are you finding very difficult to keep her at that emotional high? That might be the only thing to worry about, because you can burn yourself out if you're working really hard to keep it up...

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Jun 28, 2011 11:00 pm ]
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It's so hard, because it all begins to seem so contrived after a while.

Author:  marky88 [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:13 pm ]
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i find if i say "cant wait to see you blah blah" all that rubbish. when i do meet them...it's not that exciting. try lowering it a little. say " looking forward to seeing you" then just stop there!

Author:  Psych3r [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 7:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Keeping GF on high at all times?

Quote:
Ok GF and I have a really good relationship but, im getting the feeling that Im keeping her at the emotional high point all the time, and Im not sure if this is good or bad.

Examples, her texts are always like "i miss u so much cant wait to see u etc etc"

When we see each other, we are all over each other all the time.

And I DO reciprocrate.

So, is this good/healthy or not??

Ive never been in a serious long term relationship so Im not too sure how I should lead after like 3 month point
Congradulation, you have caught the ever elusive, wild and endangered beast known as the "healthy relationship".

It's tempermental and ferocious at times, but it's also magestic and beautiful. Soar on it's noble wings and enjoy.

At the point at which it starts to seem cheesy, it's getting tired. Give it a rest. Then when it gets a little too lethargic, give it a poke and rile it up again. Like a good fire, unattended it burns out, too many logs its sufficates. You want to maintain a nice warm blaze with the occasional log and the occasional stoke.

Now stop posting on forums and go have some actually intimate and fullfilling sex with your girl.

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Jul 06, 2011 10:36 pm ]
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i find if i say "cant wait to see you blah blah" all that rubbish. when i do meet them...it's not that exciting. try lowering it a little. say " looking forward to seeing you" then just stop there!
so true

Author:  nrainman [ Thu Jul 07, 2011 1:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Hello

I think your GF is understand than you. What for answer that all discuss about it with her. Then you got reply.

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