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| Author: | ProdigyRd [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 3:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | A clingy gf and "jealous" friends |
Me and my gf have been going out to close to 4 months now. She enjoys being around my friends SOMETIMES, but she much prefers it to be just us two. She is definitely type-selfish in the way that she uses the "But, im your girlfriend" line. My friends dont like me "ditching" them sometimes for her, but its not even like its all the time. It might be 3~ times a week that im with her due to her job. What should i do? |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 4:17 am ] |
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your buddies need to deal. she's your gf. |
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| Author: | Maikuljay [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 6:05 am ] |
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Above poster is correct, Assuming she's not taking up all your time - and it's what you want to do.. nothing needs to be changed.. Your friends are being selfish and not respecting your new circumstances. |
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| Author: | Txacoli [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 8:15 am ] |
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Yes, they need to deal. Just make sure you're dedicating enough time to your friends too. That's a mistake a lot of us make. Make sure you have alone time with your friends, it's healthy for your friendship, but also for you and your relationship, much more than you may think now. |
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| Author: | sPd13 [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 11:43 am ] |
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I had this problem in the past hearing "I'm you gf" from one part and "bro's before girls " from the other part. First its all about respect : the friends should respect you wanting to be with your gf, and also your gf should respect you wanting to be with your friends. What I do to resolve the ditching of one or the other is respect the ones that made plans first: for example if I made plans with my gf for the future weekend and after that my friends ask me to hang around with them I tell them that I already have plans and they respect that. And also the other way around. But in your case, if you see her rarely then you can make plans with her 2-3 times a week and after that be opened with hanging out with your friends. |
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| Author: | Lodewijkp [ Mon Jun 20, 2011 2:10 pm ] |
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another solution would be sharing your gf with your friends ... lol .. |
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