I'll try to make this one short.
So, my ex dumped me 2 month's ago because she felt that I had changed, I used to be this badass PUA that didn't give a shit about anything or anyone to this little AFC that couldn't live without her. Basically I committed the #1 Mistake and she lost attraction.
She said that she really thought that we were going to last forever but then I started changing (AFC, being jealous, etc, etc) and she was, I quote; "Disappointed and just fed up and couldn't take this anymore and just wanted to be alone".
We almost got back together, but I fucked it up by hitting a douche-bag in the face.
I learned the hard way. Was really down on myself and had a hard time moving on. But i've learned from my mistakes and am a better man, and will be a better "lover" in the future. Since then i've been living my life, seeing other women. I've got hotties posting Hearts on my Facebook wall, commenting on my pics, etc. I hooked up with a couple of them, just living the life.
She on the other hand has met a new guy (I know for a fact that they met after we we're broke up - or else I would have thought she could have cheated on me). I'm not afraid to say he's a downgrade. He's 17 (i'm 20 and she is 19), is a regular pot smoker and does nothing else than just hangout with his friends to smoke pot. He's a high-school drop-out as well. He is also ugly. I personally wouldn't be afraid to admit if he was better looking than I am, in fact, most of her ex's are good looking guys, and she herself is a solid 8.5/10 (and i'm trying to keep it down to earth with this rating).
She is the 2nd most attractive girl I've dated, the first one being a Dominique Model.
So the fact that she got a new boyfriend really helped me to move on, especially since I view him as a downgrade (I probably would have cried like a wuss if the kid was 21, driving a Ferrari he bought by creating a startup company).
However, despite that I am almost completely over her (and I say completely because i'm not afraid to admit I still think about her from time to time), there is one thing that really really really bugs me. I don't know if it is because men have a natural will to always want to understand and know why, but I just don't understand why she hates me.
After all, she is the one who broke it off. I never cheated on her, never yelled at her (always stayed cold as ice) when we where in arguments. Her mother loves me and her sister claimed "I was the coolest boyfriend her sister ever had".
Even when we finally completely broke it off I was the most mature possible (went over to her house told her that I wouldn't chase her anymore and that she wouldn't be bothered hearing any stories about me).
The other day, she posted a picture on Facebook of some dude (later on I found out it was her new boyfriend) sitting in her couch at her house. May I state that she never ever puts pictures up her boyfriends or whatever on Facebook, especially if they've been dating for 3 weeks.
So since it popped up in the middle of my newsfeed, I asked a friend of mine if he knew the kid, and he told me about it, said he had knew for a week but since we hadn't seen each other and he thought I didn't care he didn't mention it.
The next day I get a text from her: "If you wanted to know you could of had just ask me don't you think it would have been easier?"
So at first I thought I would completely ignore it, then I was hesitant of answering something along the lines of "Hey if you wanted and excuse to text me you could have found a better one!"; but I finally went with a more classic:
"Hey didn't think it was useful to bother you with something like that. We can both do whatever we want, I was just surprised to see you had a new boyfriend "
She answered "Ha its because you didn't want to bother me"
But the icing on the cake was my birthday who just passed by, and everyone was giving me there best wishes, and I thought she would text me or Facebook or whatever (since when we where appart, her birthday passed by and I sent her a simple text she then proceeded to b***h because it "was lame"), and all her friends (who I barely know) texted me there wishes, but she didn't.
I obviously don't want to be friends with her, but I just don't like for people to hold a grudge against me, especially for no reasons.
So what do you guys think, why does she hate me, for no reason? A friend of mine thinks its because she is pissed off at how the whole relationship turned out.
I personally, have no idea.
Back to old times!
