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Author:  semomafa [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 6:01 am ]
Post subject:  AM I IN THE FRIEND ZONE
Yesterday we talkd with my gf and she told me things
1. i think it would be good for both of us tho see how it would be without each other
2. i donnow how i love you as a friend or as a boyfriend...
I love this chick much so i need to change something but i donnow what
Author:  cedius [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 6:12 am ]
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For better advice, we need to know what exactly is going on...we need more details,

How long have you two been together now?

Do you find yourself trying to spend all your time with her?

Do you two enjoy time away from each other as well?

Does she reciprocate anything you do for her?
Author:  Asmodai [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 6:19 am ]
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Yes. If you find yourself asking this question, the answer is almost always yes. Next.
Author:  semomafa [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 6:27 am ]
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Im with her for about 7-8 months im 22 shes 17
I dont try to spent time only with her at the beggining i was like that
I enjoy time without her as well and she does
Yes she sacrifises alot to please me sometimes
But shes kinda i donnow she never told me about how she feels me how are her feelings about me she only teell me i love you too when i say i love u never text me first or call me first for a date she's used to that i gotta be the first to do everything and i sometimes kinda feel that im not loved by her i start some weird msg-s and in few hours we start a war and i think for this is the big problem that im thinking that she doesnt love me sometimes..
Author:  tactik [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 11:55 am ]
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She's turning 18, she wants to be single when she turns 18... happens a lot : )
Author:  sheps [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 12:08 pm ]
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dude have a ton of fun while shes thinking about ''how she loves you'' post all the fun you're having with friends etc on your fb like pics of you guys going out and doing things.

she will see you dont need her and that will make her want to be with you

if you mope about at home not going out and saying ''oh hey do you want to meet up... ye i can see you then i'll just cancel with my friends'' she will know she can have you whenever she wants and it wont be attractive.

-Be ALOOF!
-Be hard to get hold of (becuase you're doing so many FUN things).
-Do NOT tell her how much you love her
-Do NOT initiate contact, let her text/call you!

At this point you're just going to have to put your trust in people you dont know on the internet. the fact is i personally am coming off a real tough break up and i've read all the posts and analysed what i did and i did everything wrong. its tough to see when you're in the middle of it you think to yourself ''if i can just talk to her i can make her see how much she wants to be with me'' but trust me that is THE WORST THING you can do.

Hope it works out for you :)

Sheps
Author:  Crypto [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 1:28 pm ]
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Sheps, you are spot on!

I will add, I feel that if she is talking this language then she is finished. You have been too nice and became a boring person to her. You should take it as a learning experience and grow from it. You are putting all of the effort into your relationship. That alone says it all...

More on Bro! Get out there and enjoy your young life, the World is filled with 3+ billion girls....
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 1:40 pm ]
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your too clingy... not enough masculine energy in the relationship.
what shep said is kind of correct.

she does not know to love you as friend or BF....
stop loving her because she doesn't love you that much.

i think you are already fubar .... maybe it's better to call her and to propose a break , at least you would be the initiator.

to let a chick know how much she loves you you have to :
1. have a great relationship... wel her comment doesn't convey this
2. let themselfs know how much they miss you.


need to stack this up ...
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I love this chick much so i need to change something but i donnow what
you ..
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For better advice, we need to know what exactly is going on...we need more details,
i want you bank account number and social security number
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Yes. If you find yourself asking this question, the answer is almost always yes. Next.
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Trip on acid, not your dick!
yes
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Im with her for about 7-8 months im 22 shes 17
17 .. immature and doesn't know what she wants .... don't let her lead the relationship... let her lead the relationship after you got divorced.
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At this point you're just going to have to put your trust in people you dont know on the internet
true ... if you follow something that comes out of a womans mouth you are destined to follow the titanic ... sink ....
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Trip on acid, not your dick
yes
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More on Bro! Get out there and enjoy your young life, the World is filled with 3+ billion girls....
actually more like 6 + billion girls
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For better advice, we need to know what exactly is going on...we need more details,
yes ... true
Author:  Snarg [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 2:10 pm ]
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Fun fact: the friend zone is a myth invented by insecure little boys who don't know how to handle themselves in this situation.

It's all in your mindset. Imagine if you had never heard of the friend zone before - you wouldn't be having this problem right now.
Author:  semomafa [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:25 am ]
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At the moment i just kinda dont expect anything in this relationship whatever happens ill accept it so i just go with the flow we see each other 2-3-4 times a week have a great fuck all night and i just call her every evening to see har how i she but actually i'll stop initiating things with her i kinda feel it that this chick is strange and will just give her space to do what she wants in i will do what i want and what happens happens. THANKS VERY MUCH FOR YOUR REPLYZ I APRECIATE YOUR OPPINION U GAVE ME PRETTY GOOD INFO.
Author:  semomafa [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 7:30 am ]
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and i found out that when we use drugs and alcohol. She seem pretty lovable person she starts expressing herself and s.o. she maybe have some inner insecurities i donnow and i realysed that actually i dont love her as a person but as a pussy ill miss much the pussy from her.
Author:  semomafa [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 8:04 am ]
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BUT THE THING THAT FEARS ME IS THAT IF I START TEXTING CALLING HER ASKING HER TO SLEEP AT HOME SHE WILL THINK SOMETHING CAUSE SHE KNOWS ME VERY MUCH THAT IM NOT THIS KINDA A PERSON AND WILL EVENTUALLY END EVERYTHING AND I WLL LOOSE THE PUSSY :D BUT I AINT WANA DO THIS THE SEX IS MARVELOUS
Author:  P1nkstar [ Tue Jun 14, 2011 10:36 am ]
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and i found out that when we use drugs and alcohol. She seem pretty lovable person she starts expressing herself and s.o. she maybe have some inner insecurities i donnow and i realysed that actually i dont love her as a person but as a pussy ill miss much the pussy from her.
When i'm on drugs is say i fucking love you too an unknown stranger.
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