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Author:  czar1 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 7:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Saw ex at bar last night
So me and my ex broke up a month ago. I saw her at the bar last night for the first time. She walked by and gave me a kiss on cheek. She then walked by and tapped my back as if she wanted to me to go and dance. I didn't.

She then came over and talked to me. She then texted me that night and said it was good to see before texting me again today.

Havent spoken or seen her in a month and now all this. Its fair to say it stirs up the emotional pot, since I think we genuinely still have feelings for each other. I find myself questioning alot today.

Any advice on these type of situations would be great.
Author:  Little Panda [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 7:48 pm ]
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This shit has happened to me countless amount of times . . . I learned it the hard way. I would see my ex at some club/bar/party and she would be all flirty and kind to me. I would start flirting back and we would start to trade emotions once again - only for me to once again come back to the SAME conclusion - every time:

It's NOT worth it.
It's NOT 'different this time'.
It's NOT gonna lead to anything better.

And most importantly - there is a freaking REASON you broke up. That reason was strong enough to break the entire relationship.

And finally: That reason most probably still exists.

Stay away and avoid contact.
Author:  Impreza_217 [ Sun Jun 05, 2011 9:23 pm ]
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If your reason for the break-up is stupid and you know better now, then by all means.... No, im just kidding, you should just stay away unless you can hit it without wanting to officially get back with her.
Author:  learnandgrow [ Wed Jun 08, 2011 8:10 pm ]
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Bingo. I would offer an exception if you were the one in completely in control of the relationship or you broke it off to explore or fool around, but that absolutely doesn't seem to be the case here.

You are Ex's for a reason and it never really changes.
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This shit has happened to me countless amount of times . . . I learned it the hard way. I would see my ex at some club/bar/party and she would be all flirty and kind to me. I would start flirting back and we would start to trade emotions once again - only for me to once again come back to the SAME conclusion - every time:

It's NOT worth it.
It's NOT 'different this time'.
It's NOT gonna lead to anything better.

And most importantly - there is a freaking REASON you broke up. That reason was strong enough to break the entire relationship.

And finally: That reason most probably still exists.

Stay away and avoid contact.
Author:  luke blue rain [ Fri Jun 10, 2011 9:33 am ]
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dont bother with your ex girl. move on and enjoy other delites :twisted:
Author:  cadmium [ Sat Jun 25, 2011 12:30 pm ]
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Look up the EX2 method. I'm going to be using it soon :(
Author:  sunnydelight [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 1:22 am ]
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Don't do it. You broke up for a reason. Be civil, but not warm and friendly, otherwise her brain will become warm and pink and fuzzy and that won't end well in itself.
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Fri Jul 29, 2011 11:07 am ]
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And finally: That reason most probably still exists.
well if the reason is because of you being a huge afc-chode.... if you changed it could be different....

still, befriend the ex .. just fuck her female friends..
Author:  astartes2 [ Thu Aug 11, 2011 6:07 pm ]
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Haha why don't girls like beta males?
Author:  LVATTEMPTS [ Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:03 am ]
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Haha why don't girls like beta males?
human nature, girls want MEN and that manly attitude, DGAF

its why usually a guy wants a cute/light-speaking girl that is submissive ( but wants to fuck)
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