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| Author: | Shadow55 [ Sun May 29, 2011 6:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | MOST BITCHY BREAK UP YOU'LL SEE, must read. |
So id been dating this girl for almost three months. shes been bottling things, but finally blew up after she broke up a day after. Just enjoy the show guys. ~_^ "youre a bit clingy, but i guess you cant really help in since, i suppose, you love me a bit too much. it seems that when ever you say 'its ok' you dont mean it and i end up staying with you or some sort. i just dont like how you make me feel obligated to stay with you. because of your so-called unintentional guilt tripping, i feel that im imprisoned in your longing; your longing for me to constantly be there for you. and like always, you say 'its ok' when its obvious that its not ok with you. im still pondering on the subject of whether or not to break-up with you. i actually dont know, at this point, if i love you the way you love me( not obsession, but like-like in general) at this point, i am actually quite confussed. despite my confussion, i know that if a super-cute guy likes me right now, i would break-up with you and go out with him. i think its pretty safe to say that i dont know you, and you dont know me. at this point, i can full-heartedly say that i regret my actions. from here on out, i think it would be better for us to just be friends, if that is ok with you." i was just being stupid going out with you i mean, come on! i barely know you i dont know you at all what do i know about you? the fact that you act like a child? who doesnt know that? what else do i know about you? i dont even know your favorite color lets just put it simply i dont know you you dont know me its not just one youre clingy and childish to the point that i actually want to just run away from you that also contributes to the fact that i dont know you at all if you have multiple personas, i probably havent seen half of them i feel annoyed and frustrated at myself for going out with you in the first place |
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| Author: | Tiger6Niner [ Sun May 29, 2011 7:12 am ] |
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I'm guessing she said whats in the quotation marks, if so, I didnt read anything bitchy in there |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun May 29, 2011 11:58 am ] |
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How was she being bitchy? Also, what's with the rap lyrics at the bottom of your post? |
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| Author: | P1nkstar [ Sun May 29, 2011 11:59 am ] |
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Yea, i don't read anything bitchy here. Be glad she's being honest, so you know what you can work on. |
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| Author: | Shadow55 [ Sun May 29, 2011 2:20 pm ] |
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ya... i guess im just in a bit of denial. But do u know actually think she hates me that much? I mean did all the time we spent together really mean nothing? Or is she just really made at the moment... |
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| Author: | Shadow55 [ Sun May 29, 2011 2:21 pm ] |
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Quote: I'm guessing she said whats in the quotation marks, if so, I didnt read anything bitchy in there
no. the bottom part is also hers.
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| Author: | bigdog225 [ Sun May 29, 2011 5:16 pm ] |
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That happens when you aren't yourself, and you aren't staying true to who you are, ie. using this pickup bs, in a relationship, take it as a lesson to always stay true too yourself It seems to me that you were incongruent and she called you out on it, and she doesn't know who you are, because you have so many personas, when all you can be is you..... |
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| Author: | kinorc [ Sun May 29, 2011 7:51 pm ] |
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Ya she's being honest but she's honestly being a cunt. At least she is telling you things to work on. One, don't say ish is ok if your pisses. Next, don't attempt to own a girl, just enjoy her company. I had an ex LAY into me when we broke up. I mean just literally clown me as our break up convo went on. Its pretty crushing man, but fuck it. You will deal with some heartbreak n then get over it. If you can, fuck her friends. Seriously, crush this girl. She deserves it. Like she told u if another guy came along she would next you in a second...wow what a cunt. Remember too, just because something ends doesn't mean all the time spent together was for nothing. Instead enjoy the times you had, and move on to the next one. And for the next one, I mean the next ten. This girl doesn't want to be with you, n that's whatever its her choice. Also, whoever brought up you using pua shit n being incongruent is probably correct. The fact of the matter is pua ish is not the end all be all for dealing with girls. Your issue isn't using pua shit, its not making it a part of who u r. If you are always trying to figure out the next move, n not just playing, it will come off all weird n incongruent. Once you put all of the different things into yourself, all you will have to do is be yourself. If you are being yourself trying to be something else, it will come off as crazy. You know what I mean? All in all, break ups blow n such is life. 3 months is right around the point where the novelty wears off n u get down to the real relationship. Obviously there wasn't a strong one there. Chances are she is correct. You wanted her alot more than she wanted you. Remember, whoever cares less has the most power. My real advice is to fuck as many of her friends as you can. Really crush this Bitch! If you wont do that, and im assuming you wont, just get over her n find other girls. This planet is not hurting for hit girls. Learn the lessons from this relationship, so you don't have to play it out again later, and move on. We really do move in cycles, n if you don't understand your mistakes you are bound to keep playing the same game until you do. Just learn, move on, fuck ten other ones, n keep going. Hope this helps. Pz |
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