Afternoon.
I seem to be posting alot here lately, which isn't an indicator of a healthy relationship. So maybe i should start considering my relationship instead of fixing the small errors all the time.
What happened, me, my gf and 3 friends are out for drinks, we have loads of fun, etc, all fine. Now i don't see my gf that often, it was 4 days now, So we where both happy to sleep once again together. It gets late, only 5 hours sleep left for us.
We say goodbye to our friends. When suddenly, she goes from happy into sad/angry, i reach her my hand in the car, she refuses to give me one. Ok. In the 10 minute drive we start arguing a bit about the silliest thing ever. She was telling she had coupons for drinks in a club (i saw her showing one in the beginning of the evening.) I was a bit joking, let's go there, we got plenty of time
She says, But i didn't brought the coupons. Which i replay to i saw one earlier. Which put her automaticly in defense mode, telling me i'm looking for things to argue etc. (i'm not the type of person, to argue about shit like that, she knows, i'm easy as fuck, i have troubles with situations like this, becuase i'm too nice) Ok, so for the time we have left, she's being irritating, finding things to argue about. Not willing to sleep next to me. General talking like if she's bothered with something. She's being a bit cold. Telling me obvious joke go sleep on the couch, but with a thone you feel like it's not for joking. etc...
I felt pretty disrespected. So I returned her the favor this mornin, when she was sober. (Being cold)
She got sad. I confront her with her behavior. She asks what she did wrong.
After a bit of discussion, i grab her telling her, i don't like to make you sad. Which she reply's to: Sorry for my behavior yesterday. She still being sad, and i think she doesn't understand what she did wrong.
Sorry for the long read.
Did I handle the situation right?
Was i being a too sensitive pussy?
Give me ur opinions.