PUA Forum :: Not listening to me

I'm confused...were you guys starving and about to die if she didn't get out right then to get the food? If not, I don't see why it was such a big issue.

I can understand feeling/acting differently when you're hungry, but this is so inconsequential there shouldn't have been a thing.

When you're in a relationship, you use different skills than when you're gaming a girl. You can think of it in terms of a business partnership - sometimes you get what you want, sometimes she gets what she wants, and sometimes you both have to compromise. That doesn't mean you capitulate at every bit of resistance, but if you let her have the small things, she'll let you have the big things.

If you tell her to get out and she says no, explain calmly that it'll take longer because you're going to have to drive around a bit looking for parking. If she still says no, drop it. It's really not worth it, and quite frankly immature, to blow it up into something bigger.

Author:	superman_magic [ Fri May 06, 2011 3:23 pm ]
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Me and my girl were hungry so we went somewhere to eat, i couldnt find parking and i asked her to get out, she said just wait for parking so i had to drive around again. Still no parking, told her again and she said no, so i got annoyed and then she decides that she would get out. How would you guys handle this situation?

Author:	Danzella [ Fri May 06, 2011 7:31 pm ]
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So, you were asking her to get out and just stand there waiting, whilst you went around trying to find a parking space? Why?

Author:	Tiger6Niner [ Fri May 06, 2011 9:06 pm ]
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also depends on how you said it. also did you want her to get out and look for parking?

Author:	superman_magic [ Sat May 07, 2011 12:01 pm ]
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No i asked her to get the food because there were no parking spaces, i couldnt stay still because cars were behind me. I simply asked her to get out and get the food while i bring the car back around so it saves time looking for parking.

Author:	Mack 2.0 [ Sat May 07, 2011 1:09 pm ]
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this is a tough one. women get funny when asked to do any sort of "chore". i know, i know, jumping out and grabbing the food shouldn't be a chore. but to women, it can seem like you are being a bully! you know, if you want a woman to "do something", you have to kiss her ass! did you miss the memo?

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Author:	Feek [ Sun May 08, 2011 11:22 am ]
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I'm confused...were you guys starving and about to die if she didn't get out right then to get the food? If not, I don't see why it was such a big issue. I can understand feeling/acting differently when you're hungry, but this is so inconsequential there shouldn't have been a thing. When you're in a relationship, you use different skills than when you're gaming a girl. You can think of it in terms of a business partnership - sometimes you get what you want, sometimes she gets what she wants, and sometimes you both have to compromise. That doesn't mean you capitulate at every bit of resistance, but if you let her have the small things, she'll let you have the big things. If you tell her to get out and she says no, explain calmly that it'll take longer because you're going to have to drive around a bit looking for parking. If she still says no, drop it. It's really not worth it, and quite frankly immature, to blow it up into something bigger.

Author:	superman_magic [ Sun May 08, 2011 12:09 pm ]
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Quote: I'm confused...were you guys starving and about to die if she didn't get out right then to get the food? If not, I don't see why it was such a big issue. I can understand feeling/acting differently when you're hungry, but this is so inconsequential there shouldn't have been a thing. When you're in a relationship, you use different skills than when you're gaming a girl. You can think of it in terms of a business partnership - sometimes you get what you want, sometimes she gets what she wants, and sometimes you both have to compromise. That doesn't mean you capitulate at every bit of resistance, but if you let her have the small things, she'll let you have the big things. If you tell her to get out and she says no, explain calmly that it'll take longer because you're going to have to drive around a bit looking for parking. If she still says no, drop it. It's really not worth it, and quite frankly immature, to blow it up into something bigger. Yh she got out in the end, but it was annoying that i had to explain that i'm gonna have to keep driving around to find parking when she can quickly just get out and get the food for the both of us. I've already had a go at her before for being selfish and not doing anything like this, she remembered this and got out lol.

Author:	SiNfUl [ Tue May 10, 2011 6:01 pm ]
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I've already had a go at her before for being selfish and not doing anything like this, she remembered this and got out lol. Good! Ride her a$$ if she doesn't comply bro. If you don't, she will continue and things WILL get worse. This is why I establish my dominance early on in ANY interaction with women...even if I don't plan on fcking them. When I establish my dominance, little episodes like this never happen. They are more than happy to comply. Women automatically shift into a submissive state when they're in the presence of an Alpha. They may try to act tough on the outside, but it's all bullsht.

Author:	victor_pho [ Wed May 11, 2011 9:35 am ]
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lol true. its a lot nicer once you get the girl to comply with what you want them to do.

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