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Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  GF freezing me out.What would you do?
MILF Gf invited me to an Easter picnic yesterday[she knows Im not into that but compromise at times].

As expected,I didnt go nor show up.

Reasons for not going:It's a function with her co-workers(all females),and that's just not my crowd.

2)Im not into going to the beach for picnics.

Anyway,I called her last evening,she didnt answer nor return my call.

Called her this morning & afternoon,but no answer nor return call.

Obviously she's upset and is ignoring me.

At least I tried reaching her by calling.

Now,would you keep calling or give her space i.e.freeze her out in return?

I dont feel Im wrong here for not going to the picnic.

But I at least tried calling her to let her know I'll make it up.

But she's being a bitch.

She deserved to be punished-not rewarded by me keep trying to call her as if Im wrong.

What would yall do?
Author:  axtion [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 8:13 pm ]
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Did she know u weren't going?

Who ever cares least about a relationship has the upper hand. I'd stop calling.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 8:20 pm ]
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Nah I never agreed to going.

You're 100% correct about the one who invests the least has the upper hand[that's classic PU knowledge].

Thanks for chipping in;from a fellow New Yorker to another.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 8:26 pm ]
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UPDATE:I managed to reach her on my last phone call.

Me:"You cant be serious about being upset that I didnt show up to a picnic".

GF:"Yes and more".

Well the more is,someone told her that I was flirting with a worker at a bakery we both go.

So she's upset that I flirted with that girl.

Everyone flirts(lol).

Of couse I didnt tell her that(I really didnt care to argue).

It's whatever.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:06 pm ]
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@Hobbit-Lol what's up bro'?

You've abandonned me.

Havent advised me lately.

I already know that I let mysef down and the community by staying in a lack-luster LTR.

But I still want to know what would you do(in this case).
Author:  Kobe Bryant [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:20 pm ]
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Okayyy.... Look her dead in the eyes and ask her, "You've never flirted with another guy since we started dating." Bullshit if she hasn't. (Unless if she just sits at home all day waiting for you)
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 9:44 pm ]
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@Kobe Bryant-Exactly!!

Flirting is a natural friggin' thing.

If she says she hasnt(which I believe she would say),she'd be a f****** liar.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Tue Apr 26, 2011 11:03 pm ]
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Come on Hobbit,I think 800 posts about my LTR is an over statement(lol).

I really love this last post by you.

For 1,it isnt subscribing to the PU cliche of "not giving a shit".

And I do notice the power struggle between us.1 minute,Im right,she's wrong vice versa.

You're probably right about me staying in this for sexual purposes.

I wont admit it,perhaps it's subconscious.

I definitely like your concept of reaching out by being caring but with a touch of irrationality.

Rather than saying,"You should be arguing about flirting...".

One should be more like,"I understand...".

Ok I get you Hobbit.

I still think that you really want to say that Im a fucking looser and a beta who needs to dump her(or split amicably)and move on.

Appreciate the accurate-LTR break down.
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