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Author:  Diagnosis [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:19 pm ]
Post subject:  I think she gets bored already..

So I've been with a gf for like 2 weeks already and I think she gets bored already.
Any ideas what to do? Its my first real relationship and I think I suck at it...

Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:25 pm ]
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i suspect we might need a few more details

Author:  Diagnosis [ Mon Apr 11, 2011 11:44 pm ]
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i suspect we might need a few more details
Ok,here is a little example which looks quite small but everything's got a reason.
At first she used to text me alot using smileys and hearts but now she's texting only when she need to know where to come and even if she is texting somthing about me and her - no smileys and the texting looks lame. It looks like shes texting her boss that she will be late for work then to a loving BF. (well,its quite a little example which may look dumb but as a determinist Id say that there are some reasons for it).

The other sign is body language which looks like shes more bored or tired of what is going on between us. At some point her voice tonality drops radicaly and it happens many times when there is no reason for it in the subject of the conversation and it doesnt happen when ashamed of somthing or regret,it happens just by talking to me.
The frequency of using alot of gestures is droping too. Its like she cares more for the other people in the environment than about me.

I dont know maybe I saw more signs which I cant remember right now but even if so,what should a man do if he's GF is getting bored about their realstionship? suprise her somehow? take her somewhere? what?

Author:  Tiger6Niner [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 12:37 am ]
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why dont you just ask her whats wrong? if you cant communicate, then you're relationship is not going to go anywhere

Author:  SilentKiller [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 5:23 am ]
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Ask her about it. My ex was the same (The txting part)... and our relationship lasted 2 weeks. You sure you're not dating her? lol

Author:  cygnus [ Tue Apr 12, 2011 8:48 am ]
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Are you sure it's not because you actually are quite boring?

Author:  Snake Doctor [ Fri Apr 15, 2011 12:24 am ]
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I still think we need more details. How did you meet? were you friends before.? But I would go with the ussualy problem that guys that are in this forum encounter when enter a relantioship. We go in we make magic happen and girls are WoW who is this guy, alot of ppl impersonate something that they are not, try to show them that they are trully PUAs who are badass they comunicate something along the lines I get laid every single week im diferent for all the other chumps you talk . So after that night the hooking I mean she starts to imagine how are you she then fantasiazes alot of shits probably thinking something that is not trully yourself simply but when the guy enter the relantionship lowers his defense because he is banging her every single day and more and more reaching again the AFC level Who are needy, and girls dont like that, So if you are doing the 98% txt and being all warm when she is cold has hell you are being needy, so talk to her ask her what is the problem. if not try and use the same thing she is doing .GL

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