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Author:  adonis_boy [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 7:18 am ]
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I have been dating this girl and things have been going very smooth and we were acting like a couple lately.

Last night, I told her that I wanted to see her in my concert as my girlfriend and then gave her a flyer of the concert with "to my girlfriend" written on it. She read it, smiled and then started kissing me and we made out for some time.

The thing is, she is shy and generally not very blunt in expressing her interest. She usually does it when I initiate a compliment or talk.

I took above as a "yes" but I can't stop wondering if it meant "maybe" or "undecided". Do you think I should have a more explicit talk with her about this?

Author:  adonis_boy [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 5:53 am ]
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Not a single reply?

Author:  mastvin [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 7:20 am ]
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actions speak louder than words...

Author:  Byron Rammer [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 8:24 am ]
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The best advice I've ever received in regards to dating is just go with the flow. Don't push anything. Just enjoy what you have and let it ride man. She will look at you as laid back and cool and this will want to make her be with you.
What do you have to gain by forcing it? It's just a title after all isn't it?

Wait a week or two then while making out or something maybe say to her "I like THIS, i think we got a good thing going."
How long have you been dating?
How long have you been physical?
Have you done anything more than kiss?

This will all effect how intense you should be.

For example, it would probably not be a good idea to say something like "I could live in this moment forever." if you're not that physical (some might argue EVER! lol)

so to recap... just be laid back, calm, and cool about it. dont pressure/pester her about it. ANd just enjoy the good thing you 2 got goin on man!

Author:  adonis_boy [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 2:07 pm ]
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At last, thanks for the replies.
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The best advice I've ever received in regards to dating is just go with the flow. Don't push anything. Just enjoy what you have and let it ride man. She will look at you as laid back and cool and this will want to make her be with you.
What do you have to gain by forcing it? It's just a title after all isn't it?

Wait a week or two then while making out or something maybe say to her "I like THIS, i think we got a good thing going."
How long have you been dating?
How long have you been physical?
Have you done anything more than kiss?

This will all effect how intense you should be.

For example, it would probably not be a good idea to say something like "I could live in this moment forever." if you're not that physical (some might argue EVER! lol)

so to recap... just be laid back, calm, and cool about it. dont pressure/pester her about it. ANd just enjoy the good thing you 2 got goin on man!
We used to hang out as friends for 5 months. Then we stared dating and it has been 6 weeks. We have been very physical - kissing, making out, grinding, cuddling and some foreplay like her licking my ear or me grabbing her ass and kissing her body.

If I was going too fast, she could have said right at the moment right? Because we got more physical and intimate after I did this "girlfriend" thing with her. I also do not like labels but I thought it would be nice to let her know where we stand and what I want.

Author:  Byron Rammer [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 2:10 pm ]
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I am not a professional woman interpreter but maybe she got more physical to ignore it?

Just sayin.... have fun, it's been less than 2 months... give it some time.

Good luck man!

Author:  vestrideus [ Thu Mar 31, 2011 3:30 pm ]
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Lol... If SHE STARTED kissing you after you showed her that, then that says A LOT more than if she simply said the "yes" you were looking for.

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