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| Author: | Foxtrot 5 [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 3:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | I want out |
I've been seeing this girl for around two months now. When I first was seeing her we'd fuck like bunnies all the time and I was super attracted to her. About 2 or 3 weeks ago she said she wants us to go official even though she knew I wanted no relationships. She said either we make it official but not super serious, or we can't be friends. I started dating her and now she's super attracted to me and I only really see her as a friend. I think I want to break up with her and maybe we can be friends later. It's been very confusing for me. What should I do? Thoughts? Comments? |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 3:34 am ] |
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she insists on being exclusive or she won't even be friends? that is an ultimatum, my friend. and the hallmark calling card of a manipulative woman. read this post > signs-of-an-emotionally-manipulative-woman-vt87161.html i'm not saying she is one of these, but it's worth the read, just to make sure you aren't in the opening stages. |
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| Author: | Foxtrot 5 [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 5:59 pm ] |
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Nice article man. She does do some of these things but I don't think she means to. Like she's a great person and all, but this ultimatum is trapping me in a relationship that I'm not fully happy in. She like wants me to tell people that she's my girlfriend and show affection in public like she's looking for validation or something |
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| Author: | Wal [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 10:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I want out |
Quote: I only really see her as a friend.
Tell her the truth. Accept the consequences.
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: I want out |
Quote: Quote: I only really see her as a friend.
Tell her the truth. Accept the consequences. |
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| Author: | Foxtrot 5 [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 5:25 am ] |
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Yea, thanks a lot guys. I just needed someone to vent out to. I broke up with her and she hates me, but at least I don't have to live a lie and pretend I was having a blast. And you're right Mack, she was manipulative, a lot of what she did and said was to get some sort of validation from peers. Thanks man |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 10:02 am ] |
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Quote: Yea, thanks a lot guys. I just needed someone to vent out to. I broke up with her and she hates me, but at least I don't have to live a lie and pretend I was having a blast.
Ha! Awesome! "but at least I don't have to lie a lie and pretend I was having a blast"And you're right Mack, she was manipulative, a lot of what she did and said was to get some sort of validation from peers. Thanks man Excellent! Move on, actually find something (or someone) that makes you happy. |
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