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| Author: | thelenzel [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 4:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | I am "collateral damage" |
Ok, today was my 11th month with my girlfriend, and what promised to be a special day turned into a holocaust, but first let me tell you what has been happening lately; the thing here is that sometimes, when she has a discussion at her home with her mother, sister or anyone else, she gets in a bad mood, and I suffer from it: she becomes cold, and almost looks as if she felts disgusted even hearing my voice. This has happened more than one time. Today was horrible, at school at first, I tried to kiss her as a "Hello" but she didn't kissed me, and I ask if there's something wrong to which she says "No". Anyways, the day keeps going on, and I see her talk and even laugh with the other classmates, and whenever I call her, she either ignores me or turns around and puts a disgusted face. I comfronted her, and she said she had a discussion with her mother, then I said "Well, why do I have to suffer from it" .. and she said "Whenever I get mad with you I'm also in a bad mood on my house" So this day was horrible, we'll see how it goes tommorow, I told her how I felt, she said sorry, but I don't know if I can keep this up. No matter how hard of a day I have, I run a business and sometimes Im really stressed and mad, and I NEVER take it on her, and I just feel sad and angry that whenever she has a fight I have to take a hit, and the other people are just soo happy... she says "Idk why I do that, maybe because you know my problems and I can unleash my anger on you, and I dont want the others to know about it" ... What can I do?? I need to put a stop to this, it has happened in the past, and most likely it will happen again. At the beginning of the relationship I was afraid of loosing her, and as the months progressed, I started to take less and less of her shit, until this past few months (4 or 3) I've been indifferent, because its this kind of behavior that keeps repeating itself that sometimes drives me nuts. |
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| Author: | bigdog225 [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 9:59 am ] |
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Dump her, she's selfish and a total bitch for that, no excuses |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 12:01 pm ] |
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oh dude. dude. dude. here is what you do: you got your pencil and paper handy? (you are gonna wanna write this one down) ok, here goes....... set her up with the most abusive loser you know. (she deserves him) |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 7:38 pm ] |
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Thanks for the replies, I appreciate it. I'm gonna comfront her today, I don't know what has been happening the past few months, like the relationship changed so much from the beginning. But, I have a lot of stress from work and other stuff, and to top it up having to put up with this other stress.. Thanks guys! |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:55 am ] |
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Well I got mad at school, I told her "So we're not talking today then!" ... she said "No" ... Then later she apologized to me and said she was very sorry. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 9:44 am ] |
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aw god, wtf? thought you were dumping this chick? she uses you for her own psychological torture outlet, can't you see that? she admitted it, lol. she basically SAID to you "when life sucks, i abuse your emotions" do you really give a fuck what she says now? anyone who stays after that without getting a huge apology and a huge turnaround on behavior is a total AFC douche. |
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| Author: | thelenzel [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 9:03 pm ] |
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Quote: aw god, wtf? thought you were dumping this chick? she uses you for her own psychological torture outlet, can't you see that?
Well, I got an apology, or I guess I'm an AFC Douche, either way I'm happy.
she admitted it, lol. she basically SAID to you "when life sucks, i abuse your emotions" do you really give a fuck what she says now? anyone who stays after that without getting a huge apology and a huge turnaround on behavior is a total AFC douche. |
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