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Author:  amoresdecristo [ Sat Mar 05, 2011 2:42 pm ]
Post subject:  This s why girls are so confusing think u can figuere this 1
Ok so there is this girl who i've been talking to for the past 2 weeks. It seems like she likes me and all. I like her also. When she is with me she clearly shows that she likes me by her action, prolonged eye contact, proximity and just wanting to be around me.
But then when she is away from me is like something different.
The problem is this when she is like on facebook and i send her a IM she never responds, when I send her a message she takes real long or doesn't respond. When we make plans she sometimes ignores my messages and then tells me an excuse why she didn't respond and whatnot. at first i believed her but then last night i told her hey after u get home ama text u to hang out. she said yeah. So when she got home i texted her and no response. So I checked her facebook and it showed, what it seems like, her exboyfriend. she was talking to him on the phone when i texted her and called.
So 3 hours later she sent me a message oh hey sorry i didn't respond i fell asleep all this time lol
I wanted to hang with her because she was going to spain for a week and all.
So what should i do? I only know her for 2 weeks and i don't know if i should be comfrontational about this and if so, how should I talk about this. Because from what others tell me from talkings to her she really likes me.
Author:  AFCmack [ Sat Mar 05, 2011 5:55 pm ]
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Play this one cool dude as its been only two weeks , you dont want to appear too interested or youll scare her off and most girls will test for neediness in the beginning by being a little aloof to see if you sweat and also to see if you will chase in some instances.Keep being proactive as in actions and organising dates from a mindset of 'Im kinda interested so far lets meet' but not 'I hope you like me' and be a little unpredictable, mix it up.
She should be an option for you not you one of the options for her so you wouldnt need to confront her at this point as confrontation is more for when things get serious when you guys are exclusive and having sex etc.
Tease her on her aloofness for example if shes not txting you can playfully tease 'you soo need to put credit on your phone but let me guess you bought more shoes again' or whatever is congruent to you and what you know about her.
Author:  snakeeater1337 [ Sun Mar 06, 2011 5:48 am ]
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Play this one cool dude as its been only two weeks , you dont want to appear too interested or youll scare her off and most girls will test for neediness in the beginning by being a little aloof to see if you sweat and also to see if you will chase in some instances.Keep being proactive as in actions and organising dates from a mindset of 'Im kinda interested so far lets meet' but not 'I hope you like me' and be a little unpredictable, mix it up.
She should be an option for you not you one of the options for her so you wouldnt need to confront her at this point as confrontation is more for when things get serious when you guys are exclusive and having sex etc.
Tease her on her aloofness for example if shes not txting you can playfully tease 'you soo need to put credit on your phone but let me guess you bought more shoes again' or whatever is congruent to you and what you know about her.
That's exactly right. I'm still annoyed myself at doing this when I tried online dating and responded too fast and too often to messages and texts. This one girl literally had me slotted into her calendar several days in advance just to talk on the phone and even flaked the first time. I wish I had read this forum before that. I wouldn't have had to waste so much time learning these lessons the hard way before getting a gf.
Author:  BrotherSharp [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 11:29 pm ]
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I agree-- as it has only been 2 weeks, she probably doesn't feel like she owes you any priority online. To be honest, a lot of people take a while to respond online anyway. Or perhaps they log onto AIM/Facebook/Gchat automatically when the browser opens and they don't even know.
Author:  Rethnu [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:55 am ]
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And you should also try to see this whole scenario from her point of view. In her mindset she could do whatever she wants, cause you've made it clear to her that you're willingly accept and tolerate her behavior. So there's no reason for her to change it.
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