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Author:  tonio09 [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 8:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Relationship with foreign girl
I gamed a Chinese chick that I share an apartment together. Since it went quite well, she's fallen for me lol. Sometimes she invites her Chinese friends over for a dinner party. Since I'm a semi-boyfriend now, I feel like I need to be friendly and talk to them, which goes like this

1. I run game and have material to work with

2. I ask a question and they reply

and after that the conversation quickly reverts to Chinese and I feel like a tool standing there and understanding nothing, so I go to my room. When I leave the party and my semi-girlfriend like that or when I just stand there, does my social value drop? How would a true PUA act under these circumstances?
Author:  Wal [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:19 pm ]
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Rule #1 for relationships: If you're in a relationship you shouldn't be "trying" to "act" like a "PUA." Anyway...

Here are several things you can do:

1. Ask them to teach you Chinese. Make it fun and light-hearted.
2. Have your girl plan these dinner parties with some of your friends, so that the inclination is for everyone to speak English to each other.
3. Play English-based board games and such.
4. Come up with something else to do (with your buddies, for example) during "Chinese dinner night."

Etc. etc. etc.

There is so much cool stuff you can learn from dating a person of a different ethnicity. Embrace that and you'll probably have a lot of fun at these kinds of events. And stop worrying about looking like an idiot... I can almost guarantee it is all in your head. :)
Author:  Mr_Amazing [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 9:37 am ]
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It doesn`t sound like you are in a realationship with this girl at all. It sounds more like you have a roomate that you want to bang. There is no such thing as a semi-girlfriend. You are either in or out, no in between
Author:  poet1234 [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:16 pm ]
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Since I'm a semi-boyfriend now, I feel like I need to be friendly
Well,this friendly mask comes as an obligation,as a task to perform in order to please her(through her social group).I think you've taken this pua thing a little too far.
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and after that the conversation quickly reverts to Chinese
You should probably "pick" a target,and start a conversation only with him/her(no matter of age/sex) this way you don't interfere with how things go around there,and still have a good time.
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does my social value drop?
man,this whole social value shit,maybe it's ok to notice it when talking to girls(i have value now,i can do more)but why the fuck would you care what your social value is with a bunch of silent creepy yellow guys.forget about that and try to have a simple,normal interaction
->what WalQer said
Author:  bigdog225 [ Sun Feb 20, 2011 7:44 pm ]
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Dude screw that shit, stop trying too sell yourself too her friends, and worrying about this social value stuff, it only makes you get in your head
Remember you are the buyer not the seller, so you don't have to sell who you are
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