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Author:  or89921 [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 1:33 am ]
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to start off, i dont believe you should need 20 posts to post in the relationship center.. i needed to post a topic here 2 weeks ago and couldn't... anyways on to my dilemma

me and my girl are in the army, we only see each other usally 3 days out of every 2 weeks... by chance these 2 weeks we got 5 days out... we fucked on the first day, but yesteday and today she was just tired.. and its like come the fuck on killing me... today was just terrible we where in her bed.. she was jacking me off while i was touching her.. and she just stops... tells me shes scared her mom might hear.. im like come the fuck on lets go upstairs or something shes like no my brother etc im like lets take the car and go somewhere and shes like no no no nd she just fell asleep.. its like right now im typing all this from rage.. cock block is one thing but jacking me off letting me feel her vagina and then stopping me mid way.. that just puts me in a state of anger, frustration, weirdness, sad, agony i cant explain it.. i can just jack off but its like not what im trying to come across here.. this is the second or third day this has happend and im like so fucking frustrated... i dont even know how to start this conversation with her without sounding like some kind of sex freak who is just horny all the time.. sorry if im rambling here super agitated...
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 3:53 am ]
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Lol,I feel your pain bro'.

It's a bitch thay you werent able to post this some time ago since you did'nt have enough posts.

I feel your frustration over the wishy-washy BS from your gf.

For crying out loud,yall dont get to see each other that steady.

So each meet-up should be treated with some urgency rather than bullshitting around.
Author:  or89921 [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 1:21 am ]
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fuck my life, bitch is tired again.. im like geez whats wrong with you...

i feel like this is going to end... i feel so angry, frustrated, confused its just terrible its like i have to mention sex everytime or like almost beg? just to get her going.. i feel terrible this is terrible thing is this bitch isnt used to many guys im like her second boyfriend ever.. maybe she doesnt get it...
Author:  Mr_Amazing [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 8:01 am ]
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why not get a chick on the side? everyone else in the military does.
Author:  parry_hotter [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 11:59 am ]
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ok bro i just read ur post and i an idea popped..
i think the next time u see her.its time for u to make her horny and STOP!...i know its hard to control urself but i think u hav to let her feel wat ur feeling man..
try to kiss her and start a makeout and then stop and freeze out...tell her u hav to go or something...do this a couple of times and then she should bring it up..if she didnt..then u can start a makeout session again...STOP...and then tell her i feel tired (the way she does it) so she realise what ur trying to tell her...
anyway gd luck m8 hope it goes well ;)

cheers
Author:  or89921 [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 3:21 pm ]
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UPDATE: we broke up.. when i was in bed with her i was kissing her, touching her etc telling her lets make love etc etc etc. and shes like no im tired blah blah, it was like that for 10 min i think towards the end she kinda got disgusted and was mad but didn't show it..anyways we wake up and shes mad as hell and is like its over.. and im like what.. and shes like you acted like a drunk horny man it made me sick like knowing this is who i am dating.. anyways now that i look at it im pretty hurt from it because i did act like that and it was wrong, im trying to not let my ego get the best of me and maybe say something?
Author:  Little Panda [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 3:39 pm ]
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UPDATE: we broke up.. when i was in bed with her i was kissing her, touching her etc telling her lets make love etc etc etc. and shes like no im tired blah blah, it was like that for 10 min i think towards the end she kinda got disgusted and was mad but didn't show it..anyways we wake up and shes mad as hell and is like its over.. and im like what.. and shes like you acted like a drunk horny man it made me sick like knowing this is who i am dating.. anyways now that i look at it im pretty hurt from it because i did act like that and it was wrong, im trying to not let my ego get the best of me and maybe say something?
You think she broke up with you because you were 'pushing it' this one time?
You think it's a coincidence that she's always 'tired' when it's time to have sex?
You think it's a coincidence that she gradually stopped pleasing you at all?

. . .

The problem lies way deeper than that. Perhaps you AFC'd yourself out of the relationship? Perhaps you were taking her for granted? Perhaps you were boring her out? Perhaps many things.

Point is, you gotta find out WHEN things started going downhill, and, most importantly - WHY. Find the reason for why she started losing attraction and lust for you.

Then make sure you don't do the same mistakes with either this girl (if you get her back), or the future girls of your life.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 4:21 pm ]
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UPDATE: we broke up.. when i was in bed with her i was kissing her, touching her etc telling her lets make love etc etc etc. and shes like no im tired blah blah, it was like that for 10 min i think towards the end she kinda got disgusted and was mad but didn't show it..anyways we wake up and shes mad as hell and is like its over.. and im like what.. and shes like you acted like a drunk horny man it made me sick like knowing this is who i am dating.. anyways now that i look at it im pretty hurt from it because i did act like that and it was wrong, im trying to not let my ego get the best of me and maybe say something?
You think she broke up with you because you were 'pushing it' this one time?
You think it's a coincidence that she's always 'tired' when it's time to have sex?
You think it's a coincidence that she gradually stopped pleasing you at all?

. . .

The problem lies way deeper than that. Perhaps you AFC'd yourself out of the relationship? Perhaps you were taking her for granted? Perhaps you were boring her out? Perhaps many things.

Point is, you gotta find out WHEN things started going downhill, and, most importantly - WHY. Find the reason for why she started losing attraction and lust for you.

Then make sure you don't do the same mistakes with either this girl (if you get her back), or the future girls of your life.
Exactly.

No matter how much of a stud you think you are in the bedroom, there's AT LEAST a good HOUR to two HOURS of stuff you need to do first in order to get her ready for a fantastic sexual experience.

You kept pushing and pushing for sex with her, basically taking for granted that she would "give it" to you because you were bf and gf.

Well, guess what, women like ROMANCE and FOREPLAY. You need to stimulate their MIND and get them into the MOOD by making them feel the right EMOTIONS. They are not like men who are basically like a light switch and are immediately ready to fuck as soon as they see something hot.

When you're in a relationship, you want to make the girl feel special, that you like and appreciate her for who she is as a person, as well as how much you desire her and how sexy she is and how hot she makes you feel. You need to build up those emotions in her, and get her to start thinking about sex with you and visualising it and WANTING it by describing fantasies, what you're going to do to her when you see her / get her home later. When you finally do get her on your bed, you have to take time to take her clothes off SLOWLY, touch her all over her body, tell her how amazing she looks, feels, smells and tastes, give her great oral and make her orgasm, and THEN, and ONLY THEN, can you even think about your own pleasure and actually fuck her.
Author:  cedius [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:04 pm ]
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I totally agree with Ryan and Panda...you came off way too needy. The first post was abit intense...you were so pissed...just by that...I don't see how you could have hid that from her...and if she said to you ... you are like a "Drunk Horny Man"...well, no woman wants that. No woman wants to be pressured into having sex...woman are not like us...we can be pissed and still get hard...woman will become upset and it's like the gates to the promise land get barricaded shut for the next millenium!

Not sure of the specifics here as we only know what you tell us...Im sure if we were all fly's on the wall...I don't think I would blame her.
Author:  Nyseto [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 10:13 pm ]
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If she gives you any more "last minute resistance" just be like, "You know what, forget it." And get back to your normal life, watch t.v. around the house or something, leave her in the room and just go to the living room or something. You don't need to discuss anything with her and what she's doing wrong. Act like you don't care, everything is normal. Don't go back to her, kino her, or anything. Just be nice and if she comes trying to talk to you, stick to the normal life. "I'm watching this cool show." Get my drift?
Author:  or89921 [ Fri Feb 18, 2011 9:12 pm ]
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UPDATE: we broke up.. when i was in bed with her i was kissing her, touching her etc telling her lets make love etc etc etc. and shes like no im tired blah blah, it was like that for 10 min i think towards the end she kinda got disgusted and was mad but didn't show it..anyways we wake up and shes mad as hell and is like its over.. and im like what.. and shes like you acted like a drunk horny man it made me sick like knowing this is who i am dating.. anyways now that i look at it im pretty hurt from it because i did act like that and it was wrong, im trying to not let my ego get the best of me and maybe say something?
You think she broke up with you because you were 'pushing it' this one time?
You think it's a coincidence that she's always 'tired' when it's time to have sex?
You think it's a coincidence that she gradually stopped pleasing you at all?

. . .

The problem lies way deeper than that. Perhaps you AFC'd yourself out of the relationship? Perhaps you were taking her for granted? Perhaps you were boring her out? Perhaps many things.

Point is, you gotta find out WHEN things started going downhill, and, most importantly - WHY. Find the reason for why she started losing attraction and lust for you.

Then make sure you don't do the same mistakes with either this girl (if you get her back), or the future girls of your life.
Exactly.

No matter how much of a stud you think you are in the bedroom, there's AT LEAST a good HOUR to two HOURS of stuff you need to do first in order to get her ready for a fantastic sexual experience.

You kept pushing and pushing for sex with her, basically taking for granted that she would "give it" to you because you were bf and gf.

Well, guess what, women like ROMANCE and FOREPLAY. You need to stimulate their MIND and get them into the MOOD by making them feel the right EMOTIONS. They are not like men who are basically like a light switch and are immediately ready to fuck as soon as they see something hot.

When you're in a relationship, you want to make the girl feel special, that you like and appreciate her for who she is as a person, as well as how much you desire her and how sexy she is and how hot she makes you feel. You need to build up those emotions in her, and get her to start thinking about sex with you and visualising it and WANTING it by describing fantasies, what you're going to do to her when you see her / get her home later. When you finally do get her on your bed, you have to take time to take her clothes off SLOWLY, touch her all over her body, tell her how amazing she looks, feels, smells and tastes, give her great oral and make her orgasm, and THEN, and ONLY THEN, can you even think about your own pleasure and actually fuck her.
ryan i swear when i see your name and replying i just know its gonna be good.. you got some really good tips there ill try it out.. btw update people we back rofl but this time im gonna redo it with the tips on the page thank you
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