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Author:  heno 007 [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 3:38 pm ]
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so I have been seeing this girl for about two months and have been having consistent sex with her until after sex one time she became really clingy.

she started asking me questions like "so are you happy with whats going on here or do you want more?"
and repeating stuff like "ive liked you since senior year (high school)" and "i may love you" which pretty much forced me into asking her out (because i do like her and dont want her to get pissed off and not talk to me)

and now shes acting all fucked up!
we have been going out for 4 days now and shes trying to make me jealous, decided that we would have a sex ban, jokingly breaking up with me, taking rides home from the city with boys! what the fuck!

ive been playing it cool like i always do (ignore all her shit) but enough is enough! im really starting to consider ending this 4 day slaughtering and that she very well does not like me at all... or shes on her period. what do you guys think of the situation? i still do want to go our with her.
Author:  Hakuna [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 3:55 pm ]
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Refusing to put up with feminine bullshyt, Excellent.

Not Having your girlfriend on a pedestal, ignoring all her shyt, and deciding to cut her off for misbehaving without any display of AFCism, even better.

You shouldn't have asked her out so soon, I've fallen for this same problem i e; a girl professing her love and being clingy towards me yet at the same time trying to make me jealous and putting me through an array of shit tests so elaborate that only her vagina demons could have come up with them.

I would leave if I were you, stuff like this is a universal red flag. Some girls are just naturally inclined to shyt test in this way and take it way to far. Until they get older and sublimate their desires to act on irrational impulses from their vaginas and hamster sized brains, they are simply tragedies waiting to happen to weary AFCs.

You shouldn't consider even for a second the prospect of "changing" her. It will never, ever, ever work.

You have game and know what you're doing, just execute now.
Author:  bigdog225 [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 7:07 pm ]
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Leave her while you aren't emotionally attached, its bad now, but if you stay she will cause you a lot of pain, and at the end of the day it isn't worth it, she's to young and immature
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jan 21, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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Look bro, she's a fucking idiot.

She wants to play games, kool, let her, not with you though.

Your not emotionally attached, you just like her, sure you could like 10 more girls next month.

Get out, and put your foot down, if you still want to bang her and she's on it, do so, and show her what it's like to tease. Taste of a bitches own medicine always makes me feel better!
Author:  cedius [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 7:37 am ]
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Instead of ignoring her, call her out and tell her you'll end it. If she doesn't stop, end it.
Concise and straight to the point...tell her that you aren't into the game playing bit. If she likes you, she shouldn't be doing all that shit to show you others are interested in her...Im sure you can have girls interested in you.

Also, previously said...you can't change her...hopefully she is not displaying her true colors because this shit isn't going to fly with you, feel sorry for the poor sap that does end up with her.

Could also be a sense of immaturity, either way...if you aren't happy, call her on it and tell her what is on your mind. If this is a relationship, it should be treated as such. If she does not like it...there is the door and it locks behind you as you close it.
Author:  bvanevery [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 10:08 am ]
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Instead of ignoring her, call her out and tell her you'll end it. If she doesn't stop, end it.
No, just end it. Dump her like yesterday's undercooked taco. This chick is emotionally worthless. "I may love you" ?? That is seriously fucked up. Nevermind all that other crap. You can do way better if you actually want a girlfriend. Way better. Respect yourself. Dump her, fuck however many girls you want, bide your time until one that's actually worthy of a relationship shows up. This ain't it.

Girls don't pull this shit "because they're girls." They pull this shit when they have deep emotional problems rather particular to them. With so many girls available who are relatively emotionally healthy by comparison, why on Earth put up with this?
Author:  bigdog225 [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 12:23 pm ]
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Instead of ignoring her, call her out and tell her you'll end it. If she doesn't stop, end it.
No, just end it. Dump her like yesterday's undercooked taco. This chick is emotionally worthless. "I may love you" ?? That is seriously fucked up. Nevermind all that other crap. You can do way better if you actually want a girlfriend. Way better. Respect yourself. Dump her, fuck however many girls you want, bide your time until one that's actually worthy of a relationship shows up. This ain't it.

Girls don't pull this shit "because they're girls." They pull this shit when they have deep emotional problems rather particular to them. With so many girls available who are relatively emotionally healthy by comparison, why on Earth put up with this?
FTW!
Haha this is what I wanted to say, but was to lazy to find the words.
This is money :D
Author:  heno 007 [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 5:22 pm ]
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thanks hobbit and chelios, i used a combination of your two answers- i called her on her shit and told her that I was tired of her games and that if she wasnt going to be normal i would dump her ass. She then told me that i hadn't been a good boyfriend ie not talking to her very much... always making her be the first one to initiate conversation. shit like that. Which was true so i decided to go hang out with her.

i ended up giving her a lift home which turned into a crazy date at the beach- we hung out there, got ice cream, played around the sand and realised how much we like each other.

she later told me that she was tired of playing games too and that the reason she was playing games was because her old bf did all the time. She also said that she loved how straight to the point i was when calling her on her bullshit and that she wished other guys would do that.

i fucked her tonight and she wants to see me again tomorrow. thanks guys.
Author:  cedius [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 8:33 pm ]
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That is amazing...glad it turned out the way it did!
Author:  bvanevery [ Sun Jan 23, 2011 7:44 am ]
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That is amazing...glad it turned out the way it did!
Are we? Depends on whether she "really" had an epiphany where she's now truly reformed, or it's just a matter of time before she pulls shit again. Time will tell.
Author:  Chelios [ Sun Jan 23, 2011 10:12 am ]
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Well done Heno, now keep it on your terms. You dictate the majority of the relationship.

Let things drop to the back of your mind. If she starts acting up again, it's time to walk.
Author:  Anon7022 [ Wed Mar 30, 2011 1:35 am ]
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It must have taken courage to do that. I know it is scary but it's amazing how girls respect and get turned on by calling them out. I will do the same. I would continue to do this and when she starts playing games call her out. The way I think of it is, would you rather put up with her games all the time or call her out risk her getting angry but also the pay off of her understanding.
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