You might want to read my post:
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It's exactly what I would write here too.
I have read it several times and experienced it two times on my own.
If a girl says she is not ready for the first sex with a new boyfriend (no matter virgin or not), this means one of these:
- She is on her period and is ashamed to do the bloody ride yet because you two don't know each other good enough. (Should be not your case because you know her for longer than a week)
- You are already stamped as "not good enough for her". Means she doesn't see a future for you and her. The most common case. Get ready for breaking up. If you don't do it soon enough, she will do it and might hurt you alot.
- She has serious mental issues.
- She has issues with her body. (If you have seen her naked and she has no problem with it, then this is not your case)
- You haven't tried it good enough to have sex with her. Hence it is a test.
Sometimes or most often you need to force your new girl into the situation of sex. If you haven't done it yet, you need to do it. Most men do it, when they are alone with their girl in bed or before sleeping together, etc.
With that action, the girl is put into the situation, where she can decide what to do. Either she will give you physical LMR, or she will let you do it, or she will give you, let's call it mental LMR.
Read about freeze outs and how to deal with physical LMR, then you can successfully pass her test and have sex.
If she let's you do it without anything, then congratulations
Maybe you just were scared away by her words alone and did not even try to have sex with her. Notice, in such a case her words were also just a test.Mental LMR is a test, where she tells "no, no" or something similar all the time, but doesn't do anything physically against it. In that case, just go on and don't listen to her. She wants to be the weak one and she wants to be dominated in the attempt to sex. As long as she doesn't resist physically, she enjoys this situation fully. If she resists only a little physically, like her hands in front of her pussy, but just as a slight test, so that you can take them away without force, do it and become more aggressive. It's a sign that she wants it more rough. For more physical LMR -> freeze out!
Edit after I read blondguys post: This does not mean more aggressive with your dick inside her, but more rough until the point of penetration. Of course during penetration be careful and look at her body language and face expression how she feels it. If you can't tell, ask her how she feels.
As for mental testing: Don't screw it up!
If she tells "I am not ready for sex", DON'T tell "What do you mean?", "But why?", "Let's just try it", "Come on, I will be gentle". You tell "Okay", smile and continue doing what you were doing. You can tell "I will be gentle" when your fingers or your dick glimpse into her vagina, not earlier.
Also don't ask her why she thinks she is not ready. You can do that, if it turns out she really has mental issues for example. As long as it is a test, go along with it.
If she tells "We shouldn't do that", "We must stop" or "It's not right", DON'T tell "Don't worry it's okay" or "Why not?". You tell "You are right. We must stop" and continue doing the erotic things you two were doing.
There are for sure many more examples where you must turn off your logic and answer correctly to pass the test.