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Author:  Nova Casanova [ Sun Nov 21, 2010 6:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Suggesting tips on clothing/looks
Hey guys,

A friend of mine came to me with this question and I couldn't give him an answer I was really sure off:

How do you politely suggest your gf to maybe change her looks or clothing on some point?
Is there even a way without giving her the feeling that you don't appreciate her style or w/e?
Author:  Nova Casanova [ Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:09 pm ]
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Thanks for the response, it was truly helpful!

Anyone else maybe?
Author:  Vietman100 [ Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:32 pm ]
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Yeah, whenever I'm with my girlfriend and I see something that looks good on a girl that passes by, I point to the girl and tell my girlfriend, "hey, that would look really good on you."

If she says no it wouldnt or it resists a bit, stand your ground and just say well I still think it would look great on you and wear the biggest shit eating grin in the world.
Author:  Kenkosto [ Wed Dec 01, 2010 8:39 pm ]
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Depends on the girl. You can either subtly tell her "that looks good on you" when she dresses in a good style; girls tend to wear what you think looks good.

Or you can say "hey, have you ever tried this style out? I bet it would look sexy on you."

I would avoid insulting her current style.

These are like the only two ways that would work without insulting her..
Author:  Saro [ Sat Dec 04, 2010 12:59 am ]
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Usually its hard to influence this kinda thing.

its probably best to just pick a girl that has a good fashion sense to begin with.
Author:  defenestration [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 6:38 am ]
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if you can get someone to change their hair/looks/clothing/habits for you (and you get her to change them via positive means, you can't have any hint of negativity on something like this like others have said) it will bond them to you quite a bit

no girl I have ever dated for any length of time stays with short hair if she currently has it, and I'm always communicating to a girl about her style

if you are reasonably good to a girl she will likely keep many of the changes you have suggested after a breakup

the better an eye that you have for style the better this technique will work, also you have to have good salesmanship while being extremely subtle, at least at first

if you are good at planting ideas in someone's head and you have good taste, it's likely the girl will parrot your suggestions back to you, either consciously or unconsciously

the more you have established yourself in the girl's mind as an arbiter of style, the more overt you can be about your comments, also depends on the girl (duh! I'm good at stating the obvious) - however it's best that she changes her look not just to please you but also because she realizes that what you have suggested is a better choice

all of this takes time, I've been able to effect simple changes in a girl's look after just a meeting or two, but often to make any sort of substantial changes we're talking 6-12 months

just some thoughts, I always like my ladies to shine their brightest, make sure you're not just doing this for yourself
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Tue Dec 07, 2010 7:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Suggesting tips on clothing/looks
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Hey guys,

A friend of mine came to me with this question and I couldn't give him an answer I was really sure off:

How do you politely suggest your gf to maybe change her looks or clothing on some point?
Is there even a way without giving her the feeling that you don't appreciate her style or w/e?
Generally, women that refrain from wearing sexy clothing, do so because they do not feel sexy. The key thing here is to find things for her to wear that look sexy for you, feel sexy for her, and look appropriate for her level of sexual conservativity. Basically you both want her to look as hot as she can without looking more slutty than she wants to.

Ok, conservativity is not a word. I looked it up, but you get what I mean. But i digress.

Ever notice that girls that dress alike clique together? Well my friends, those women shop together, and for those who are in fashion hell, it's the blind leading the blind.

Just like beta males and alpha males were taught by their fathers and friends how to behave, poorly dressed women are taught by their mothers and friends how to dress. Being the boyfriend, you are not put in a position to change that. You can do so by replacing her fashion mentors.

Ever been to the mall with a woman? ANY WOMAN? Your mom? Sister? Do they ever come back empty handed? We all know the answer to this boys. And we all know what to say when she comes home with new clothes and says, "Does this look good on me?"

There's a time and a place for a blatant, truthful answer to that question, and it's OUTSIDE THE DRESSING ROOM BEFORE SHE BUYS THE CLOTHES.

How do you get her to get new clothes without suggesting the ones she has are obsolete? YOU TAKE HER WITH YOU WHEN YOU BUY NEW CLOTHES FOR YOURSELF!

Go to a unisex clothing store like Express or Abercrombie and Fitch, even if you don't want to get anything in there. Browse for yourself a bit. It's only a matter of time before she wanders off to the femme section for herself. Wander over with her after a few minutes and say you didn't see anything you like, then start picking things out.

AND HAVE HER TRY IT ALL ON!

What is cute on the store's rack might not look good on hers.

And I think you've got it from there. Give it to her good when you get home. Nothing says sexy like good sex. Give her the best sex you've ever gotten and you've got a repeat customer.
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