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Author:  arandomdude6 [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 2:25 am ]
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Girlfriend

Ok so my girl isn't an arrogant HB10, she's very down to earth. But she's still quite a firecracker. She has the "short girl syndrome" as I call it lol... which makes them really stubborn and feisty (yeah you know what that means :wink: ) She's naturally horny and playful. She's also shy at times (the kind of shyness that makes her speechless and smile uncontrollably).

Situation

She's relatively new as a girlfriend. We keep pushing things farther and farther physically every time we see each other. No sex yet, but there's been fingering, handjob, tit sucking, ect. She's a virgin (yes a serious shocker), but just barely... cuz she's already done everything else. She had a boyfriend for almost 2 years awhile back. She loved him, but he cheated. She is obviously a little attached to him still, ect. You guys get it... the typical cheating story. But now she's fallen in love with me and calls me "perfect." She has stripped and masturbated on webcam for me before. We know how to drive each other crazy in ways like that... so this is an INTENSE relationship just from the anticipation alone.

Problem

Ok now the problem... since 2 days ago, something's been different. She hasn't been horny with me. It's weird because it started right after the last time I saw her. Yeah, there were FIREWORKS of desire the last time I saw her. It's one of those occasions where you're both worn out and sore as hell afterward lol. So then when I talked to her the next night over webcam, she wouldn't strip for me or get horny. First she blamed shyness, and then soreness (cuz she was super sore down there), and then she blamed it on "something wrong with her mind." And when I withdrew some attention, she got mad and felt like she was screwing things up. She hates to see me disappointed, but she would never tell my why she didn't strip for me. She got really annoyed, and I eventually had to change the entire subject and put both of us in a better mood again. Cuz when she gets in a pissy mood, it's NOT an easy thing to deal with (compliments of the short girl syndrome lol).

Questions

So what's up with this guys? Does it sound like she was really just sore? Or is there a loss of attraction here? Or maybe I should've heated her up more? lol... Any input would be appreciated, thanks!

P.S. None of these problems has anything to do with her periods.
Author:  Steel654 [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 3:25 am ]
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Maybe she's just sore and not in the mood, man. You can't expect her to be super horny 24/7.

Just relax and give her the benefit of the doubt. I know it was 'sudden' but you're over analyzing this.
Author:  thelenzel [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 4:24 am ]
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Agree with Steel, its not like she hasn't been horny in months. Its only been 2 days, maybe she's on her period, or tired, or worried, or stressed. A LOT, and I mean A LOT of things come to play when dealing with a woman's mood. Even the smallest thing can change her mood for the day. Don't worry about it, and act normal, she'll come around ;)
Author:  Mr_Amazing [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 10:32 am ]
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it`s a game...think about it. if she were sooooo damn horny, she would have fucked you. all that sex play crap was just to keep you interested. now that she knows that she has you, all that wild and crazy behavior is gonna "mysteriously" go away. and she is going to come up with every excuse in the book on why she can`t do all that freaky stuff...
Author:  Hawkin [ Tue Nov 09, 2010 12:12 pm ]
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Mr_Amazing has a point here. Be careful with girls that don't have sex with you. In general.

My first "real" girlfriend was like this. At least I thought it was real. She would let me finger her everytime I wanted and become horny in all kind of places but not let me have sex with her. "I am not ready for sex yet". :? :? :?
The silliest excuse of all in teenage girls, oh was I dumb that time.

I wish I knew about PU that time, then I would have turned her down and not have her break my heart for weeks, because as Mr_Amazing told, she was obviously playing with me, looking how attached she can make me to her. It all happened without me noticing anything and unfortunately I am pretty sure she did it only subconsciously :(

Of course it is possible that you really over analyze it, but if you two don't fuck, don't become too attached to her emotionally.
Author:  thelenzel [ Wed Nov 10, 2010 12:00 am ]
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Mr_Amazing has a point here. Be careful with girls that don't have sex with you. In general.

My first "real" girlfriend was like this. At least I thought it was real. She would let me finger her everytime I wanted and become horny in all kind of places but not let me have sex with her. "I am not ready for sex yet". :? :? :?
The silliest excuse of all in teenage girls, oh was I dumb that time.

I wish I knew about PU that time, then I would have turned her down and not have her break my heart for weeks, because as Mr_Amazing told, she was obviously playing with me, looking how attached she can make me to her. It all happened without me noticing anything and unfortunately I am pretty sure she did it only subconsciously :(

Of course it is possible that you really over analyze it, but if you two don't fuck, don't become too attached to her emotionally.
That´s a very good point in there, that girls may play like this, though I don´t really think its a silly excuse to say "Im not read for sex yet" I have friends(girls) that tell me how they've been with their boyfriend for so long, and she hasn't had sex with him because she thinks she's too young and she doesn't feel ready. Every girl is different of course. Some believe about their prince charming, or some want to lose their virginity with their first true love, others don´t give a shit really. My girlfriend is 25 years old, and she lost her virgnity with me, I never asked her why not with all her past boyfriends, but it could be something along the lines of "I wasnt ready" or "I didn´t loved them" ...
Author:  Saro [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 6:21 pm ]
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If she's young and you've only been going out less than 2 months she might feel you're going to fast. Or she went and told her friends what you guys had been up to and they disapproved making her feel a bit guilty about it or some crap like that.
It could be a plethora of things really.

Just give it time, see how it pans out and after a week or 2 of the same behaviour, bring it up with her and talk to her about it. If you can't have those kind of conversations with you girlfriend than whats the point. Ya know?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Nov 24, 2010 7:25 pm ]
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My post in this thread may help you

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