But you DO act differently in the flirting stage than you act in the relationship stage, you do change your persona somewhat from getting her interested to keeping her attracted to you...
Basically, you need to keep the interaction fun and interesting, keep doing novel things (there are some great lists of crazy date ideas out there that can only really be attempted by people in an LTR, like waking up early to see the sun rise on the beach then sleeping on the sand all day etc etc) and being social, because nobody wants to be like those married couples who lock themselves away for the rest of their lives. And you need to make sure you don't turn into a guy who just does whatever he's asked, whenever he's asked, because his girlfriend asks him. Just utilise the social skills you learn from PU and build a deeper understanding of each other based on trust instead of purely attraction, and your LTR should go its full course.
Also, don't forget that there are other girls out there. If something's changed in your relationship that can't be fixed or you strongly feel the need to move on, you're allowed to do that too.
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