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| Author: | ConspiracyTheory [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 8:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | she's confused about her ex |
so i just found out that she still had a bf when i met her, but broke up right when we first went out. she had been weird and flaky the last few days and finally confessed that this is the reason and that she is confused and "didn't want to lead me on" so my question is how do i handle this so she decides to stick with me rather than go back with the ex? it seems like i'm winning the battle, but he has 1 big advantage - he is her roommate, and thus can see her all the time. |
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| Author: | TheLastWolf [ Wed Oct 20, 2010 10:10 pm ] |
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She's probably confused because she's still having sex with him |
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| Author: | ConspiracyTheory [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 12:03 am ] |
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obviously a possibility... even single girls you must assume are fucking someone else until they ask to be exclusive but that doesn't help me complete the steal |
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| Author: | Seto [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 3:42 am ] |
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It does indeed seem like she's still having intimacy with the ex. This is also my 50th post. Party on, Wayne. |
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| Author: | Steel654 [ Thu Oct 21, 2010 9:20 am ] |
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My advice: fuck bitches like that. You deserve better and are more than capable of finding better. Don't waste your time on these girls. There are better girls out there waiting for you. I know from experience! |
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| Author: | ConspiracyTheory [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 12:54 am ] |
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You guys are prob right. I'm considering breaking it off. The way I see it I'm in an AFC position right now where I'm waiting for her to choose, but if I end it I regain the power. If she wants me she'll have to be completely over the ex and if not, oh well fuck her I can probably do better anyway. If anyone thinks this is a stupid move and wants to post an argument against it, do it quickly because I'm going to pull the trigger on this very soon. Don't want her beating me to it 
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| Author: | Bimm3r [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 1:27 am ] |
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Quote: You guys are prob right. I'm considering breaking it off. The way I see it I'm in an AFC position right now where I'm waiting for her to choose, but if I end it I regain the power. If she wants me she'll have to be completely over the ex and if not, oh well fuck her I can probably do better anyway.
If anyone thinks this is a stupid move and wants to post an argument against it, do it quickly because I'm going to pull the trigger on this very soon. Don't want her beating me to it just think about it long and hard... you should not brake it up because its "afc".. but if that is what you really want.. then do it.. think about it a day or two and take your decision... |
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| Author: | Sean E. Sexton [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 1:41 am ] |
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Send her this way, see if I can help her decide. |
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| Author: | new2game [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 2:40 am ] |
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Ouch dude, its like looking into a less attractive mirror  .I had a relationship go sour for this reason! Chick had 4yrs of baggage with her ex (hence the rule, look out for chicks with baggage). Once she says she is confused, its over man. Best to cut your losses and move on. It will be hard because she will be back with the ex in 1 day, but you will have to move on. Chin up. |
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| Author: | Slickness [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:01 am ] |
| Post subject: | suggestion |
Freeze out. Either she'll go back to him (then she obviously doesn't deserve you) so you can score HB way better. OR she'll start chasing after you and you're the one in command again. |
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| Author: | Habitual Jerk [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 8:37 am ] |
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The above post by Slickness is the best advice so far in my opinion. Clozer has an excellent line he uses for freezing a girl out that he posted in another thread. Here it is: "Seems like there is a wall around you that no one can penetrate. You seem like a really cool person and there is no doubt you are beautiful. When you're ready to let down that wall and open yourself up to new experiences get in touch with me." This is geared more toward flakes but I think it can be modified a little to effectively suit your situation. |
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| Author: | ConspiracyTheory [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 3:58 pm ] |
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what slickness said is exactly what i was thinking. i ended it as it was the only way to maintain respect. thanks for the advice guys. ready for halloween as a single man! 
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| Author: | Sean E. Sexton [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 5:34 pm ] |
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There are many ways to maintain respect! But I agree, that is one of them. |
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| Author: | biggus [ Mon Oct 25, 2010 6:24 pm ] |
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Yar same thing really 'give' her back to him, just make it so she understands that she is getting the consolation prize and sure as a bear shits in the wood she will be after you. And if not it was going that way anyway, your playing poker here and your only as strong as your two cards and the river! |
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| Author: | camus154 [ Tue Nov 02, 2010 10:10 pm ] |
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Wait...she's confused about her ex......and she's still living with him?! AND you just found all this out? I don't know how you could possibly be comfortable with that situation. I'd say run, don't walk, away. |
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